why is it that time after time when grown folks including your parents tell you not to have sex you f/m go out and do it anyways the get on here and ask total strangers about sex like can i be pregnant after one time? how do i konw if he/she likes me? what will it take for all of you to understand that AIDS is for real? aids is even in girls with big butts guys who stayes geared up etc......why not take the kid time out to be a kid and learn how to LOVE yourself? how many of you know about GOD? how many scriptures in the bible do you know? why arent you living the way GOD wants you to live? why are you not treating your bodies as temples? why have babies for your parents to raise? how long do you really think this teenage love will last before on of you desides to sleep around? what do you think your so call mate does when you dont give him/her some sex upon request?
2006-11-27 20:41:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I understand what your saying, and I almost completely agree with you, because I am a Christian and very proud of it, but a while back I backslid and I got pregnant(out of wed-lock) with my then boyfriend now husband, I am only 15 and he is only 16, we were both virgins when we met and we got tested for AIDS at the doctors. You need to be on the other side of the fence before you "hate on" the people that really are on the other side of the fence. Look at it this way, at least people are on here asking about being pregnant rather then going out and getting abortions. You also need to remember God loves everyone, even the people who sin, obviously, oh and I am planning on raising my baby, I am on homestudies and I'm going to stay at home with my baby, and go to school next year, and not everyone that gets pregnant sleeps around, so don't assume things you know nothing about. Also, I can name 5 people who I know who have been together since they were in middle school or high school, so again, stop assuming every teenage boy is a low-life. My then boyfriend, now husband was always okay when I didn't want to have sex and no he didnt go look around anywhere else and yes I do know that for a fact.
bottom line is..stop assuming you know everything about everyones situation.
2006-11-27 20:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by ????? 1 · 2⤊ 4⤋
All the first questions that you say people ask - its called growing up. You stop wanting to be a kid and the way to grow upp is by going through those stages. I am both a christian and underage but i feel ready. I am not saying you shouldn't obey the law but sometimes you just feel you have grown up and you're no longer a kid and you can't go back to being a kid. also, making mistakes is part of growing up. if you didnt do these things when you were a teenager, maybe it was because you didnt feel ready that early on and thats fine - not everybody does.
And what you said about god. I know all about god and ive read the bible. unfortunately, i dont agree with everything in the bible although im a christian. why aren't i living the way god wants? i believe i am. people have different views of what god wants.
And i dont think my bf will last forever but in my opinion, its good to get experience and not all my bf wants is sex so dont judge people before you know them.
2006-11-27 21:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok, first of all. Of course we know AIDS is real, we all watch MTV and its allllll over that channel. Secondly, believe it or not most teenagers actually use condoms because they DONT want to have kids. hmm....what aconcept. and Thirdly, why would god give us these bodies and make it so enjoyable if he didnt want us to have sex for pleasure!!!??? I have had the same boyfriend for a year and a half and both of us are 100% faithful and he is the only person I have ever slept with. Also there is such thing as getting tested which a lot of teenagers do. So why dont you pull your head out of your a.s.s. Thanks.
2006-11-28 04:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by kaitlyn s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Shut the hell up. For once you obnoxious adults look at the teenager you past everyday that may be pregenant and instead of pointing to her and calling her a whore or stupid look at her and ask yourself this question: What made her have sex? Could it be that she's trying to fill a void because her father abandoned her? Or maybe she's being sold for sex by her parents(it does happen...school report). Or maybe she made a mistake but tell me somehting as teenagers did you not make mistakes? Or were you perfect? Did you not have sex? And maybe you were lucky and didn't get caught or didn't get the girl pregant or you didn't get pregnant. And if you did wait 'til marriage very good for you but your generation had it a lot easier than we do. Ugh some of you are so stupid you don't get it. You gripe and complain about the house not being clean while teens are worrying about whether or not they're pregnant! And instead of acting mature and caring about it you make fun of them and call them names!
And as for what she said about God I agree. If maybe for once we could turn to God on a regular basis instead of being "bad-weather" friends.
So before you point your finger at the teen next door ask yourself: I wonder if there's anything I could do to help? For once make a difference in the lives of teens instead of making it harder than it has to be. There's enough bad out there without you joining the peanut gallery.
2006-11-28 02:43:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn V 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Look i respect that you love god, i belive in god but god didnt write the bible
I think is wrong to have sex if you are not informed of what can happen, i think is wrong to have sex without a condom, but is my decision to have sex, and is not like i sleep around i only have sex with my boyfriend who i've been with for a year and 6 months and he waited for a year and 3 months till i was ready
Who are u to judge me or anyone else?? who the hell do u think you are?? you live acording to the bible?? did you ever lie?? cuz is the same, it says you can lie, and you cant have sex before marrige both thing are in the bible....
i dont think im going to hell cuz i had sex, because i did it out of love, this guy is the love of my life i dont know if ill get married with him but i will never regret my decision
you dont know me or all the teens who have sex, so you cant judge me
what does it matter how many sriptures do i know?? if you dont want to have sex that is great GOOD FOR YOU i respect you!
so you should respect my decision to have sex
even if i did sleep around and had sex with a different guy every night you couldnt judge me cuz you don know me so shut the f**k up
you really need to get layed
2006-11-28 00:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
maximum have no morals not all yet some I propose in the event that they are engaged and getting married decide for it yet somewhat they won't be mutually for long and that's tousled and a few cant think of for themselves.they'll likely by no ability prevail. they finally end up valueless and pathetic. do not propose to be harsh.yet yeah they are immature and that they don't understand what love is.They substitute into insignificant.
2016-10-13 06:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by juart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw your other question. About men's penis' smelling. How do you know many men do smell? You sound like hypocrite.
I'm married. I've only slept with my husband. I will only sleep with my husband. Preaching God in a world and country where many do not believe or will not sand up for Him is pointless.
You don't have very good social skills if this is your idea of making a point for young girls/woman not to have sex.
2006-11-28 02:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by .vato. 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Wow one more religious nut job has made themselves known, just wonderful. What is with you people and living life the way god wanted you to???? I have ONE life to live and im not ******* wasting it by doing what "god" wants me to do, if i lived life by the bible id be homeless and a virgin for life. And stop telling others how to live their lives, sure there are a lot of idiots who go out and have sex w/o knowing WTF they are doing. I will live my life the way I want it and have FUN, maybe you should try it one day, I really advise it your life must be DULL.
2006-11-28 10:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dylan 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For a savage human like your self who call ........rape of innocent animals/pets consensual screwing ......should not talk about sex topics especially to minors
2006-11-27 21:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by Brown guy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ppl like u make my f*cking brain hurt.
2006-11-28 06:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋