I have always considered myself to be a "normal" straight guy.
I have openly gay friends and have no problem with the lifestyle.
I am not attracted to men. The thought of holding a d*ck sickens me.
Anyway, one night I was cruising the streets with a friend. We were drinking and smoking pot and looking for stray girls to pick up.-We drove down one street and saw a group of stunning ladies.
As we approached, we realized that they were drag queens.
These "ladies" looked hot!
Only, I don't like men, so I drove off.
However, a few weeks later I went alone and met with an exceptionally pretty drag queen.
I ended up paying him/her for a BJ.
I saw more queens over the next months.
I've since stopped going, but I miss the experience. I even regret not having anal sex with one of them.
If one resembled a man, even slightly, I couldn't deal.
But the one's that look like women turn me on.
I still like women, but I'm confused by what I did and by what I'm thinking.
Am I gay?
2006-11-27 19:06:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are attracted to women. Yes. And a man dressed as a (convincing) woman turns you on... so you wonder if you are gay... Well, here it is. I don't think you are. I don't even think you are bi. I think you are a little curious about this, but from what you've written, it seems like your mind tricks you into thinking these drag queens are really women because they look so "hot".
It may be different if you gave one of them a B/J, but as of reading your comments that didn't happen. It is natural for human beings to be curious and attracted to "bright and pretty" things... I don't really know you, so I can't tell you. But I can offer you this... don't try to label this action. Just let it be what it is... a curiosity of sorts. It is afterall, your life and what you do in it is entirely your buisiness.
2006-11-27 19:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Whatev' Yo' 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, this isn't abnormal behavior for a man, straight or otherwise, in my humble opinion. However, nor is it 'normal' behavior for a man, straight or otherwise. There are a lot of crossing over the sexual boundaries going on these days, some publicized, some not so publicized. I think being gay or not gay is only a question you can answer. And so what if you're not as straight as you thought you were? It's not like it should be a surprise, right?--you should know yourself better than anyone else. What turns you on is a fluid thing; next year, it might be midgets. I mean, cut yourself some slack. If you find that you're breaking some uncomfortable sexual ground, you might seek some professional help. But if you're not being victimized or victimizing others because of your recent predilection, I'd see where it went, objectively. Like an experiment in your ever-changing and oft-finicky libido. Just like you can't change who you love, you can't change your hot-wiring for certain sexual experiences. Some are just undiscovered until...the optimal time. Doesn't make it right or wrong, unless you feel the need to make such personal distinctions.
2006-11-27 19:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Woman
2016-05-22 21:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to give the advice of an unknown writer in a public toilet round our way, and i quote:
"I'm not gay, but the guy sucking my d*ck might be!"
If you're cool about the ladyboys giving you a bj, then cool, if you're not happy about the more butch ones with 5 O'Clock shadow doing it, then don't do it. It's all about whatever turns you on.
2006-11-27 21:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are many gradients between 100 % straight and 100 % gay. I suppose you fall somewhere in between. However, there is no shame attached anymore to being gay, so just try to live with it!
2006-11-27 19:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You like the illusion and the sensation of the feminine in guise of the male. No. You're not gay. You liked their 'shell' not their male sensuality. No. You ain't gay.
2006-11-27 19:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Knowing that they are guys and still doing it then YES!!! Stop messing with dudes and find some real ladies.
2006-11-27 19:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by Noclone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No your are not gay. sounds like you maybe bi gay men don't find women attractive at all in a sexual manner well at least my gay friends
2006-11-27 19:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by Normefoo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to church and find God...Once you have found God, you no longer will be doing these sinful things and you'll gain strength to think "straight" 110%...
2006-11-27 20:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Leigh 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2006-11-27 19:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋