Here's a story...
This guy I know is my best friend.
I love him.
He loves me.
Of course, the story doesn't end there.
I'm only 14- my parents said I could date this specific guy when I was 15. That happens in 5 months.
The problem is that I'm not sure my parents will really let us "date" when I'm 15. (movies without my brother inbetween, holding hands, kissing sometimes... going places alone... etc.)
Is that to much to ask?
The guy is 16, super respectful, and has already been waiting for about a year and 2 months. I've known him for like a year and a half.
What do you think is appropriate?
2006-11-27 18:46:23 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If he's half what you think of him, he's a catch - and if he thinks as much of you as you do of him, he'll be willing to wait. Don't rush into intimacy. He's waited this long, trust him to wait a bit longer and know that your parents are only being so particular because they love you and don't want you to get hurt.
2006-11-27 18:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by triviatm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say for now go with your parents, if you show you can be trusted etc they are more likley to let you do as you see fit if they think you will be making the right choices. If you make a big fuss now & keep making a fuss they will just get even more defensive & you will end up like the stupid "I'm 15 & have 12 kids" type girls on Maury etc, you dont want that.
2006-11-28 02:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by MrBret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Personally at 14, I still didn't like boys but I was weird. I liked sleepovers and girls with makeovers and doing make up stuff....talking about boys and watching seventh heaven...what's happend to those times?
2006-11-28 02:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill all that stuff will come soon enough. You may not believe it but now is the best time of your life.
2006-11-28 04:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, you should wait for you DEBUT. Things will go what you like.
2006-11-28 02:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nouhime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOU WOULD MAKE A GREAT COUPLE
WHEN YOU ARE 15
2006-11-28 08:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, well you obviously dont let your parents know. You ever think of that..What ma and pa dont know
Wont hurt em;) or u...lol depending what kinda parents u have.lol
2006-11-28 02:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
And what is he waiting for?
2006-11-28 02:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent really in love, you are too young to know what it is.
2006-11-28 02:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Southie9 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋