My friend was kissing with a girl... u know, pasionally, and after they finished he told her "Thank u" and she slapped him... my question is: was he so rude by tellin her "thank u"? Did he take her like a hoe? i think that after a kiss u have not to say thank u... right?
2006-11-27 17:32:55 · 13 answers · asked by ** SeVimLi KaDın ** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah it was really offending if he said thank you, but on the other hand how did he say thank you? if he said it sweetly and with respect he did not deserve the spanking,but all the more just tell your friend never to do that again
2006-11-27 17:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I take it this was casually one day/night when you were all out somewhere and he just met a girl and kissed her?
If so, firstly I dont think he deserved the slap as she was kissing him too. It takes 2 ya know. And secondly, if he was saying "thankyou" just for the kiss he was proberly being politie although ive kissed a few guys/girls in my past and ive not had one of them say "thankyou" for a kiss!! Was your friend drunk? She may of felt just used by his actions. Would she of slapped him if he had said, "can i buy you a drink" afterwards or "That was a nice kiss, thankyou?"
2006-11-28 07:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not rude, but it's not normal.
Didn't exactly warrant a slap, though, did it.
Sounds like she acted in a way that you said she isn't.
We may need some more background about these 2 to reach a more informed decision...
2006-11-28 01:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by jinz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't really say thank you but it might be that he got flustered and couldn't think what to say when all he meant was wow!
I've said it after sex when I've lost the ability to think properly and it's the only compliment that has sprung to mind (with a long term partner) but I don't think men get as offended by it.
2006-11-28 03:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing and sex are mutual pleasures and to say thankyou after kissing and sex can be interpreted by the woman as being treated cheaply. Like she was kissing you for your pleasure only which places a prositute slant on it. it is generally considered not polite to say thankyou to your girl friends for sex or kssing.
2006-11-28 01:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I give someone something I expect a thank you; It's only polite!
2006-11-28 01:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lupee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you say thank you?You rather compliment her/him on the way they kiss.
2006-11-28 01:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was rude yes, like you said it made her seem like a bit of a ho... Not a good idea...
2006-11-28 10:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Fu Manchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it because so was soooo ugly that she thought he was taking the pi..??
2006-11-28 04:40:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was polite and courteous, she was rude, ignorant, violent and childish.
2006-11-28 03:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋