My old friend moved about 30 minutes away from me and my best friend.... My old friend doesn't like my best friend BUT my old friend is on the same soccer team as me...... I'm not giving up my best friend but i don't think i can take much more from my old friend, i may strangle her, I NEED HELP!!!!!!!
(Any one else confused?)
2006-11-27 16:36:46 · 6 answers · asked by sk8ter_girl_of07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Confused? Yes. Just show tolerance to both friends.
2006-11-27 16:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there skater girl! Well, that really is a hard question. It really is tough to confront your old friend about something like that especially when it comes to your close friends. But you know what, my answer is be honest. If you think your old friend is being unfair to your best friend you should tell her. Tell her that she shouldn't be like that to your best friend. I know it's hard to do but that's what you must do. I mean, she is an old friend of yours so as an old friend, she should be understanding enough to understand what you are trying to say, don't you think? But of course, you should tell her the calm and cool way not by shouting at her and scolding her for what she's doing to your best friend. I also do that to my friends because I don't wanna lie to them and I wanna be close. I don't wanna make a gap between us which will make me aloof towards them. I hope somehow I was able to help you skater girl. ^__^
2006-11-28 00:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to read this about 10 times...but I got it finally....
You can be good friends with your "old friend" and your best friend...if your "old friend" doesn't like it, oh well. She'll get over it. Move on. She maybe one of those people that can only have one friend at a time. My sister has one of those kinds of friends. It isn't healthy. Trust me. Good luck.
2006-11-28 00:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that she is disrecting you by being mean to the friends that you choose. Just be real and talk to her, let her know how you feel. If she is your friend she will let you know in her actions.
2006-11-28 00:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by texasgyrle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont strangle her, just start ignoring her more and more
2006-11-28 01:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump her...
2006-11-28 00:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋