2006-11-27 16:25:51 · 12 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You like the double-edge sword questions, eh? You know the obvious answer is yes and yes. Sure, it's possible to love someone who cheats on you, and not worry about the fact that they cheat. In a situation in which BOTH of you have made that agreement. Personally, in the day of AIDS and what-not, I don't know why any self-respecting person would allow this behavior in such a vulnerable and intimate aspect of his/her life, but I don't judge. If you love, trust and respect their choice--and condone it, for you--then I don't see why not. But, tell me, why would you choose this relationship over one in which you don't have to sacrifice emotional/sexual exclusiveness and your health?
2006-11-27 16:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love someone that cheats on you, and that means that you love them more than they love you. You are looking for people on Yahoo Answers to reaffirm what you already know. I had a boyfriend that everyone told me was no good, and I would always say "But you don't know him like I do" and "But I love him" and "He is a really good person and will change". Well, I am not with him and am glad that I am not.
Just because he made his choice on how to live his life and drag himself down didn't mean that he would drag me along with him.
2006-11-28 00:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, anything is possible. It depends on the amount of committment that you expect from a mate. Self worth comes into play also. Myself, I wouldn't want to be disrespected like that. There are too many diseases out there to feel comfortable with a mate who sleeps around. It's a personal decision, very very personal. Good Luck With that! Niki
2006-11-28 00:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by niki-niki-tembo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible to still love someone if they cheated on you once. Good communicatin, counseling...all that, can save a marriage. If it's a habit, then that's different. But I don't think one cheating moment needs to destroy a marriage or true love.
2006-11-28 00:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by theodore r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you do not worry, then think again. Why else would you ask this question?
If they cheat, then cut them lose. It may hurt for a while, but it will hurt only once. Let them cheat and it will hurt every time!
2006-11-28 00:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by woundbyte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you or someone think you are in love with someone who cheats on you,and seemingly you do not care that they cheat I would suggest that you either have a death wish or you are simply obsessed not in love.
2006-11-28 03:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by boutgivup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't I already answer this? ok here it goes anyways: Yes its possible to still love someone but if they cheat leave them and never ever keep dating them or get back together with them. Once a Cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-28 00:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by kelly_420_brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey guys!!!!!!!! True love seeks and knows the truth. Love is honest. So,please have mercy on yourself. If your are being cheated by someone,leave her. Do not make yourself such a fool!
There are still so many ladies who surrounds you. Someone who deserved to love and be loved by you.....Maybe God has another plan for your life........But it is your choice if you won't leave her.it is your life ............
2006-11-28 00:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry, when you can forgive and TRY to be kind. In the end you will be stronger and will be able to forgive much easier and develope longer relationships.
2006-11-28 00:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's possible. I don't see how somebody could be fine with it though. I've experienced it, and it feels horrible. Some people are different though.
2006-11-28 00:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Blayzn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋