2006-11-27 16:10:18 · 20 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If I love someone, nothing they can do will change that.
2006-11-27 16:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by jonas_tripps_79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Cheating" implies that they aren't being honest about having other relationships, and that's the real rub here. If you really love someone, and they really love you, then the most important thing is for you to be honest with each other. And that means--oh, no--talking and--eek--self-knowledge! Sometimes the "cheater" isn't facing the reality of themselves: they are non-monogomous. And if *that's* the case, then you two need to have a serious talk about whether you are willing and able to handle an open relationship. And, if you can't, then you may need to take your love elsewhere to someone who is willing and wanting to be exclusive. Good luck.
2006-11-28 00:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by FL LMT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me. My wife of 13 years cheated on me and when she seemed to completely repent in her heart, I gave her another chance. But then she did it again and I also found out she was smoking meth. That was it. I divorced her. I think its worth a shot but only if they will stop and do a complete 180. Many marriages and relationships have survived this, but it always takes a complete change on the cheaters part and usually counsoling. Mine didn't work, but that doesn't mean they all don't.
2006-11-28 00:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Infidel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously in some pain, and I'm sorry for what has happened to you.
Decide if you are better off with them or without them. If you stay with them, then realize they will always cheat. A cheater never changes, so you either have to learn to live with it, or ignore it. If you leave them, then do it with a clear conscience that this was not your fault but a character flaw of your partner. Do NOT allow them to blame you, you are not responsible for their inability to keep their word.
If you do move on, give yourself time to grieve, involve yourself in work, community service, a hobby, working out or sports. Distract yourself, and in time, it won't hurt so much and you will be ready to try again. Don't let this destroy you, give yourself some time and then risk love again.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-28 00:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone with all your heart and they cheat on you, it means that they do not love you with all of their heart and you are on the loosing end of the relationship.
2006-11-28 00:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not. Because if they Cheat then they are obviously not feeling the same love that you have for them. Once a cheater always a cheater. Thats just the way it goes.
2006-11-28 00:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by kelly_420_brian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't "turn (your) Back" to the fact that she cheated. Remember always remember...If she loved you as much as she loved you, she wouldn't have done it. But if her first time, I would give her another chance.
2006-11-28 00:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how great the sex is! No, I'm kidding - I would not be able to accept that someone I truly love, and that truly loves me (hopefully) is cheating on me! I don't have an "open door" policy when it comes to my relationships.
2006-11-28 00:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by JZ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never, i got out of a 4 month long relationship with a guy who cheated on me. I said i loved him and ignored what he was doing. with the support of my friends i dumped him. then he asked out one of my friends and they started going out. and ever since then he's done a million more things that prove to me that he's scum. you deserve someone better, who can be loyal and give you the same amount of love that you put out.
~been there
2006-11-28 00:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by santaz_lil_slacker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and no. Don't you think that you deserve someone who will Love Love you with all his heart?? Don't settle, sweetie, he doesn't love you - he doesn't even care that he is hurting you. Go find a real man - he is out there waiting...
2006-11-28 00:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by Rita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
Sex is just sex. People share different things with different people. and has little to do with the dependency that you share if you are in a relationship.
Be happy with what you get from her -- if your not enough for her in general, she will dump you any way or if you decide that she is not doing enough for you to to deal with her having sex with some one else when you catch her, then you dump her. Remember that humans by nature are not faithful. We hope that we are discrete enough that we dont get cought
2006-11-28 00:51:02 · answer #11 · answered by crapemyrtleguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋