What can I do so that I don't feel sad, I've been depressed because I'm 25 years old, I don't have a job and I haven't saved any money, I'm away from that special person I love because of an immigration situation, and the US does not recognize same sex relationships, and we can't live together, I'm so in love with him and I can't think the solution is to find somebody else. I might laugh at jokes, or be happy in my everyday life right now, but, I can't stop thinking about all of these and I get depressed, and I just feel like I want to cry, I don't know what to do, I feel sad. Any advice?, I really need it. I will thank you so much.
2006-11-27 15:53:48 · 5 answers · asked by GYM25 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't know what to say. It seems like you are in several bad situations.
My advice is to do the best that you can to solve these problems. Be positive and things will come in your way.
Focus on the bright side like the health you have, or the love you share with your love ones (even though he might not be able to be next to you, physically, he is with you spiritually).
Good luck.
2006-11-27 15:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by LifeisGoood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not personally know how good these are, but maybe what you really need is to talk to someone who understands how you feel. Don't just dwell on it, reach out to someone so they can help you at least feel understood and cared about. They may have some useful info. for some of the other problems you mentioned as well. GIVE IT A TRY. You have NOTHING to lose. Try some of these:
Gay & Lesbian National Hotline
1-888-THE-GLNH (1-888-843-4564)
The Trevor HelpLine
1-800-850-8078 - Specializing in gay and lesbian youth suicide prevention
Gay & Transgender Hate Crime Hotline
1-800-616-HATE - Do Not Tolerate Hate
National LGBTQ
Talkline/Support line
Trained peer supporters that are also youth.
1-800-246-PRIDE
2006-11-28 00:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Thoughtful Gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well that isnt true that we dont have same sex marrages here. mass. has same sex marrage and there are a few other places that have it. look into it and see for your self. maybe you soon to be husband will being willing to move to what ever states alow it so that you can be together. good luck
2006-11-28 00:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not depressed, you are lost.
I'm agnostic, so I still belive in a supreme being. Same sex? There is a hole in your heart, because someone is missing?
Look for GOD, you will find him. That all you need.
2006-11-28 00:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by elclone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good therapist. No one could possibly do this justice in this forum.
2006-11-28 00:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by Willard V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋