how come as human beings we get involved in relationships we know will never work?on top of that we keep on telling ourselves that it will work,knowing that it won't?i have been dealing with this for 13 years on and off...................13!!!how com i cant get away from this?i have tried,but allways seem to find my way back.why do i keep doing this to myself and her,along with our child.i do not want my little girl seeing this anymore.
why?why?why?
2006-11-27 15:28:14 · 8 answers · asked by 'HUMVEE' 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to gain self confidence by practicing yoga and meditation
2006-11-27 15:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you why. You didn't love the girl to begin with. You were "looking" and she was there. Now the only one who suffers is the innocent child. The two of you need to come to terms with the supposed "relationship" and agree that it's over. My guess is that she isn't any more thrilled with it than you are. Sit the child down (no matter what age) and explain that Mommy and Daddy have to go their seperate ways, but we still love you, and always will. No matter what, we will always be here for you, even though we're apart.
2006-11-27 23:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by David D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the right girl hasnt come along to take you away from that madness,the right girl weill come along and show you happiness and you wont think about your ex,first thing is first stay away from your ex,possibly get your numbers changed aprt from one to call for your daughter,and when you think you want to see her do something go for a run and start to go out and meet new people the sooner you do this the better you will feel
2006-11-27 23:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on what you want out of your relationship. Do you want to end it or try to work on it?
Have you thought of counselling?
You are right not to want to put your child through any more turmoil. Growing up is hard enough.
It sounds like you have some serious decisions to make. Marriage/relationships are truly hard..but worth it if you really work at.
Good luck.
2006-11-27 23:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe you need to talk to someone to find out what is it about you that keep putting yourself through this. I would say that you should not keeping putting yourself through this for the sake of you precious baby girl. I think may you should just let it go and be there for your princess
2006-11-27 23:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Missy_Eye's 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is why I stay away from relationships...nothing but drama...I have an exhuband that gives me enough drama dont need anyone adding too it..............I LOVE BEING SINGLE_
2006-11-27 23:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because we are human...weak sometimes and afraid to move on. You must do this for the child. they learn what they see.
2006-11-28 00:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in a relationship, your being held hostage.
2006-11-28 00:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋