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2006-11-27 15:21:45 · 8 answers · asked by gandg 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oral sex should work on any female.
2006-11-27 15:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every woman is different! What works for one may not work for another, so it's hard to say. What I can tell you is this:
1) Focus on her clitoris. Some women's are highly sensitive and it can even hurt to rub it; some aren't so much and are fine to touch. But the point is that the clitoris is the main point of female arousal. Give it all your attention. And if you aren't sure where it's at, ask her (she'll know, believe me), or look at some diagrams online.
2) Make sure to prepare her, mentally. All the clitoral rubbing in the world won't do anything if she's not aroused in her mind and in a sensual, romantic mood. However you do this also depends on the woman- some need sweet talking, some need dirty talking, some need candles, roses, the words 'I love you', 'You're beautiful', 'I want you', whatever. Make sure she's in the mood.
3) Listen to her! Whenever someone asks 'how do I please my lady?', my response is always- ask her! Unless she is absolutely silent in bed, listen for the gasps, the moans, the quickening of breath, the little sounds, the twitch, the movement as her hips lift up to follow your hand/mouth/whatever . . . and then do more of whatever causes those sounds and movements! The best lovers don't have any special secrets; rather, they are observant and listen closely, pay attention, and give her what her body (or her, explicitly), says she wants.
Keep these three things in mind and you'll have it made! Good luck!
2006-11-27 23:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If they do take it down email me sunspotmia@hotmail.com.
Ok pressure from the front on the mons will stimulate her clitoris.
Hitting her g spot (which is on the part of her vagina closest to you when on missionary possition) can bring on orgasm. It takes longer than doing it clitorally, but can bring longer better orgasms.
forplay breathing on her smelling her skin kissing her . putting your hands on her genitals to feel where she seems most sensitve are all good ways to gauge how good you can make an orgasm for her.
Lastly, let her know with you body your turned on by her and that her femininity makes you feel masculine and horny.
If you need more info email me, I don't mind at all.
2006-11-27 23:29:12 · answer #3 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the individual. Everyone likes different things, so just ask her what gets her going.
2006-11-27 23:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, let's see if we can race the clock, shall we? Clitoris, clitoris, clitoris. Forget fingers unless you're good at using them. And your nails are clean, short, without jagged edges.....Just forget the fingers. Unless the clitoris is involved. 'Nuff said.
2006-11-27 23:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by dangerouspoet 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her orgasm is not your responsibility. Stop trying. If you make passionately love to her, she will reach an orgasm on her own. Making love is not work.
2006-11-27 23:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sunbelter 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Oral seems to work every time.
2006-11-28 22:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stimulate her clitoris with something soft
2006-11-27 23:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by China 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋