2006-11-27 15:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, it's ok. I would even advise it. I mean, you wouldn't buy a car without test-driving it first, would you?
2006-11-27 15:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you ask. Ask a right-wing Christian, and the answer is no. Ask a conservative, traditionalist person, and the answer will probably be no. Other people will say yes.
In my opinion, it's up to you. I myself don't believe that people should have sex before they are completely in love and committed to one another. Marriage doesn't come into it- marriage is just a piece of paper or ceremony that represents the commitment that should be there. Therefore, if you have sex without being 'married', but have the same commitment that most married people do, there's nothing wrong.
But you have to decide this for yourself. Only do it if it feels right, you are ready, and you can say why you are actually doing it (and that counts for after you're married, too!).
2006-11-27 15:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is how I see it. Sex is like awesome and can bind two hearts together like you have never seen. So when you have sex it a wonderful thing. Unfortunately when you have sex with more than one person your heart gets all mixed up. So if you wait until marriage then you are ready to be with that person for more than sex. The sex is like the wonderful binding that helps make all the rest of life worth living.
Hope this helps,
Eric
2006-11-27 16:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by Eric S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wise to do so. If you are a wise person, wait, and there are all kinds of problems you will avoid in the process. Smart people don't sleep around, period. Your future mate will thank you and love you all the more. Imagine that other person waiting for you. Even if you have slept around, stop doing it now. Make good choiced from here on out, and save yourself and others a lot of grief. There is a deeper reason why it hurts more to break up with someone you have slept with, than someone you never went that far with. Think about that......
2006-11-27 15:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by oceansnsunsets 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, "ok" can have different meanings, per se. Some religions forbid it, while others have no problems with it. Some families don't think it's "ok", while others do. It all depends on your personal morals, so just make an educated decision and think it through fully. Sex is a big commitment, so just make sure you're ready.
2006-11-27 15:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Armand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God doesn't create some laws to be a mean God. Look, when you join with someone you become one, I'm not even talking about diseases. Your spirits join, you share for a moment a union, but you can come away with more than you bargained for. Don't learn the hard way, I did and was hurt and traumatized for a long time because of that. Respect yourself and the temple your soul inhabits.
2006-11-27 15:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer really depends on the 2 persons involved...
......n alot has to do with their mtual religious beliefs........ cultural background...........n the style of upbringing they had.
But if u were to put all that aside.........n if u could imagine.......these 2 persons growing up in a 'desert' island without any outside influence whatsoever........just growing up naturally........in the open........in this earthly planet........n with the 'wind-sun-n-rain'....
.....what do u expect when they both reach puberty?
....do u think they would have sex?
Sex...is a natural result of human feelings......growing & developing inside all of us........away from all religious or cultural prejudices..........biases.........taboos & 'artificial' inhibitions!
Yes......its o.k. to have sex before marriage.........as marriage is but an artificial barrier created by modern man........to regulate social behaviour........to an acceptable level........ALL guided by man-made rules & regulations.
If there is mutual love & intense feelings.......then let those love & feelings show..........just remember to be honest, sincere........n be responsible!
2006-11-29 17:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on your values system. Are you religious? How closely tied is physical intimacy to emotional intimacy? Would you ever have sex with someone you had no attachment to, simply for the feeling? What decisions do you regret in life up to now, and why? How special is "The First Time" supposed to be? What would you do if you became accidentally pregnant?
These are all questions you need to answer. And if you cannot answer them, then you're not ready. But if you're not morally against it, and you're mature enough to handle the consequences, then do as you please. But please, be careful.
2006-11-27 21:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mac181 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally. wouldnt you hate if you waited years for a piece, got married and the sex is garbage?
2006-11-27 15:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by China 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100%
2006-11-27 16:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋