THANK YOU for the quick responses, wow. Thank you.
I just want to add to the lady who said "I ran my husband to the other woman." HE has been denying me sex. Furthermore, I have a three month old, mind you I had been pregnant nine months prior. And as for me calling the number, no one picks up (not even an answering machine) I was told the phone is used for internet purposes only. I just happened to call the number and after several tries a woman to pick up (I did block the call). Our ages, I'm 25 and he is 35 years old. I can't take this. I feel like such a LOOSER!
2006-11-27 15:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THANKS SILVERFOX. Get a life you say? Want to know what my life is.
Working TWO jobs, up with a three month old MOST THE NIGHT, cooking, cleaning, writing out bills, taking care of two dogs, grocery shopping.
And even though I try to balance all of this, according to my husband, I don't clean right, my cooking can ALWAYS use just a little more cheese or salt, etc. My working two jobs STILL does not bring in any money worth the while and I'm no good to our dogs.
You know, I do need a life. But when you run a household and hold two jobs, get back to me on that one.
2006-11-27 15:52:20 · update #1
So we have established that he pretty much wronged you. The question now is how much time you are going to spend being a victim? Forget how you feel - how you feel won't change anything in the real world. Make a plan for what you are going to do to survive and thrive - then do it. Figure out where you want to be in 5 years, what you need to do to get there and get started. Just think, in 5 years he will be 40 - coming off his prime and you will be 30 - coming into yours. Picture him really regretting this. Use this to improve yourself - never as an excuse to justify doing things that don't make sense!
2006-11-27 16:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser- he a cheating pig and she is a home wrecking b****h. He can't use the fact that you were pregnant as an excuse for cheating.
I say keep your chin up and be proud that at least you can say you haven't cheated. If you keep him then keep him busy and keep a general eye on his comings and goings.
I had to deal with an ex calling my man several times over the years and he visited her at her work and stayed out until 5am during a blizzard to see her. I put my foot down, made him choose and told him she could NOT be his friend. Every time she called after he told her his decision to stay with me he handed me the phone and I gave her an earful. She hasn't called for the past year but I NEVER let my guard down. He knows that I will not forgive him if he talks to her again.
Remember that you are not alone and if it gets to be too much of a problem then kick him to the curb and call her to come get him. Don't forget alimony and child support.
2006-11-27 23:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by dazedreamr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I missed something here, you said in the other post that when you need to get a hold of him, he returned your call from a woman's phone. But neither of you two have a cell phone. How did you know where to call him at?
And further more you are not the looser here, he is. I personally do think that he is cheating on you. But then again, I don't trust men any more as I have been cheated on way to many times in the past.
2006-11-28 00:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl wow,thats admirable and what you go through is tough but in thelong run you leave him now and your going to find the much haoppiness you desearve,and the right man will find you and sweep you off your feet and you will not have to work another day in your life to support you or your child because he will look after you but you need to leave your current situation he is to old for you,
2006-11-28 00:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the looser your husband is for violating your trust, tearing up your heart, breaking up his family, being a selfish ***. And the women who left those comments is probably someone who only dates married men. Don't allow these women with their nasty comments and low self esteems to get to you. Because any women who dates a married man is a miserable self serving lack of self esteem dumb a88. Who will spend the majority of her life alone sleeping with another womens husband sharing the penis and licking his wife off of it. She loves the sloppy seconds. Good luck and God bless*************************************************
2006-11-27 23:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
seems like you both need to get a life in my opion and try councelin and if all fails get divorced . my opion?
2006-11-27 23:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋