How many of you girls have had an affair on your husband? And what type of guys do you go for?
2006-11-27 15:11:01 · 23 answers · asked by Big Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys that would treat them better than their husbands do, and keep quiet about it....thats my guess!!!
2006-11-27 15:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was married for 20 years and my husband would cheat on me and even left me once and i took him back i am an attractive women and a good cook toward the end he would argue with me and ask for a divorce he really was not happy with himself so he took it out on me and i was getting tired of the emotional stess and neglect one day i was at the grocery store paying for my things and i came up short on cash there was a young attractive man behind me that payed the difference of my bill i thanked him and he offered his pnone number i toke it but then through it away that same day i ran into him the next day and he gave me his phone# again that nite i had another arguement with my husband. the next day i call this guy before this i would never think of any thing like that always fatfull , i met him at a park and one thing led to another and i strarted an affair with him this went on for a year . then i told my husband when i broke it off i moved out and filed for divorce the kind of guy married women go for is one that will give you the attention that your husband is not emotional and physical its that simple!
2006-11-27 23:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bianca H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Steve,
I have and still having an affair, I am separated because of this and regret the pain I cause for my lovely husband and now my lover. What to do I still cant decide where my heart is,I am a very confused because you know what I love both of them and need to decide for the best of my daughter. Both have their similar character and bad points as well. Do you think its wise to be like that? Better dont mess up your life if you can.
2006-11-27 23:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Larisha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With my current husband, I never cheated and never will. We are soul-mates and I can't even begin to describe how much I love him.
With my first I cheated after four years with incredibly well-built, gorgeous, muscular men.(A lot! I was very young but that's not an excuse.)
My second marriage was open, we were swingers with other couples and I had a regular boyfriend on the side. I would bring friends home for him to play with but I'm not really sure if that's considered cheating!
2006-11-27 23:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by princessslave 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No affairs.
I would feel dirty, having more than one man in my life like that... inside me... Besides, I want to keep my stuff well in tact... LOL
Then there is the vow that you made to each other, why bother getting married if you want multiple partners ever after?
2006-11-27 23:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by cking_pOise... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not married anymore, but through 19 years of HELL- i never once cheated on the A&&hole. Even though I was accused of it daily. Not a single time, plenty of offers, but always said no.
If i had, it would have been with someone tall, romantic and who treated me better than the a&&.
2006-11-27 23:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by toobusytostress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I've never had an affair and I can't imagine doing it. But in the unlikely event that I would he's have to be confident, hot, and smart.
2006-11-27 23:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6yrs of marriage. I have not cheated on my husband. The same type of men that I found attractive when I was single, I still find attractive now that I'm married.
2006-11-27 23:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never had an affair while with my husband.
my husband is the kind of man that you can talk to everyday about anything/ anywhere whether it may be good or bad.
he's my bestfriend, my lover, my soul mate. he is everything that i didnt know i looked for in a man.
2006-11-27 23:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i never had an affair on my ex, but if i were looking for a man, i would search for the one who i was emotionally confortable with, a man i could really talk to, without fear that he hurt me or demean me. i would look for a man who was loving and made me feel good about myself, someone who listened and had a great sense of humor, who didn't take himself too seriously, who wasn't selfish and self serving.
2006-11-27 23:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking? i would say no. i did to my first husband, but i wasnt in love and did not understand what vows really were. being cheated on really hurts, and i couldnt bear to do that to my husband now. if i wasnt getting what i needed out of my marriage, then i would consider counseling and then divorce. ---i go for my husband
2006-11-27 23:17:03 · answer #11 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋