My friend is a few years younger than me, and she's going through puberty. She "says" she doesn't want to grow up and get boobs, but I know her enough that she does. She told me at a party all her friends wear a bra, and she doesn't. She wants one, but won't "tell" Her mom says when she's ready...should I just get her one so she can feel more comfortable?
2006-11-27 15:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by shewolf2899 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Talk to her. She seems comfortable talking to you, so ask her if she wants to go shopping for one small bra. She might be proud because she might be shy talking about it. If you've gone through it, she probably looks up to you...be there for her, no matter how embarass she feels.
-Advice Chick
2006-11-27 15:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by lizarose2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) That is being a nice friend. Sports bras are the common right now for girls her age. They are comfortable, and they are great for one just beginning in development...easy to wear, and it IS a bra.
Just be reassuring to her that all girls go through these strange times. Put youself back to that time and you'll have no problem finding the best way to help ease this time. You're on the right track already.
2006-11-27 23:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, be a good friend and take her to get a bra...now! Or else she'll turn into me(Saggin'!) LOL!
Teach her how to buy the right bra, the right pads and the right ways to put them on. Ya'll will enjoy it. It'll go away and try to be there when she tells her mom.
2006-11-28 00:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by lucy_babbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would talk to her mom and see if that is okay so she doesnt get mad at you in the end then you and your friend can go bra shopping together maybe that will make her more confterbal plus also go to beingagirl.com for more advice
2006-11-28 01:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by jthizz_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah get her one !!! but if ur mom and her mom are friends ask your mom to see how her mom feels about the whole situation .
2006-11-27 23:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by melisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't feel comfortable with her mother taking her then I would take her and help her pick one out.
2006-11-28 00:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe get your mom to talk to her mom, or even you talk to her. But if she is really uncomfy talking to her mom about it...go ahead and get her one.
2006-11-27 23:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she does not want one then dont..
2006-11-27 23:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋