I got into a tricky situation. I applied to adopt a child internationally and hav ewaited 4 years to find out the Brazil is at a standstill on this...no children right now.A friend of mine is Indian and has a wfe and a daughter 2 years old. The daughter is very light skinned and cute. In India to adopt a child you must have a partner who is Indian or they don't give you a child. My friend offered to go with me to a Surrogate and have a child that I will adopt ,part his because he will be the biological Father and the egg donor will be an Indian woman. I like the idea,but we need to be in a relationship to adopt or they won't give me the child as the "mother'. Being that he has a wife I told him he needs to be "separated " to help me out from his wife. His says "don't worry" everything will work out. I could pay for the surrogate and him being the Father and all ..I could lose the child later . I need to protect myself someohow. I like the idea and feel positive about it.
2006-11-27 15:00:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
This situtuation sounds funny to me. Why would he want to separate from his wife? Wouldn't you later be blamed for problems between them?
I would think twice before getting involved in this situation.
2006-11-27 15:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite tricky. I don't know why you need to stick to India as the origin. please examine the motive of your male Indian friend. Why does he have to go through that lenght to help you. Why? Why? Why? A friend said: IF IN DOUBT, BACK OFF!
2006-11-27 15:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tar Ugo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋