I thought you people that are quick to call others "sickos" would love this one. Seroiusly though, I want to see my wife pleasure another man while I watch and then join in. We arrainged for this to happen through a Craigslist ad but the person never showed up. She loves to talk about exactly what she would do to another guy while we are making love. We sometimes "practice" exactly which positions we would like to do. She is very sexy, definatley a 10.
2006-11-27 14:42:05 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
E-mail me! I will come and watch! And if your hot i will do you while your wife watches you watching her.
2006-11-27 14:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
I can tell you that when a "fantasy" comes true, it's never what you hoped it would be; very disappointing. I think if you really want your marriage to work, fedility is #1...that means, don't share your wife! Also, you two start playing role games. That will take the sexual tension off of the "other guy" thing and do something totally original. Go to a bar separately and pick her up; she could wear a wig and no panties. YOU be the "other guy". Hope you guys have a wonderful time! Godloveya.
2006-11-27 14:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are into that then it's ok to play around but I think you might think about long and hard before you do it because I know of couples doing that very thing and the men ended up resenting the wives because they got pleasure from another man.Just be sure you can really handle seeing your wife on top of someone else.
2006-11-27 19:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by tarzan's lady again 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only married man that would like to see this happen. I have wished the same thing as you typed, but I know that it will never happen. My wife and I do share the same house, but not the same bedroom for over 8 +years.
I tried it once with another couple and the guy backed out after I showed up at their house.
It is easy to talk about, but harder to act out when it actually happens.
Good luck to you and your wife.
2006-11-27 14:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have heard that reality can never be as fantastic as a fantasy. Play with the fantasy. Get all you can out of enjoying using your minds and your bodies.
Try mirrors, set up a camera to film her pleasuring you, then you can watch her doing it from another angle. Try a dildo. You two CAN fulfill each other. Cherish each other and your special relationship, your bonds will strengthen and you will be the happiest you could otherwise be.
2006-11-27 14:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lol, well I don't think this is something you can pray for. Because even if god were listening to you that request would certainly not be at the top of his list. He'd probably be more into helping the blind or homeless or something.
On the other hand, if as you said your wife is into this too, you shouldn't have to depend on prayers. If it's something you both want then make it happen. It can't be all that hard to find another man who wants to be part of something like this. Just get the word out. I think the saying is that "god hellps those that help themselves" :)
2006-11-27 14:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kristen 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This could be fun using your imagination and role playing it out. But when you actually see someone else with your wife, it may not be so exciting...in fact you may get jealous...and what if your wife enjoys him better? What if... a divorce ensues...this all sounds like a fun idea but seriously you may leave mental scars on yourself for allowing such action to take place...fantasies are ok in the mind but when we play them out they can cause heartache and hurt feeling in the long run.. Be very careful what you pray for .................especially if it is a sin. Your marriage is not going to last too much longer .... that's pretty clear........I think we should pray for you.............
2006-11-27 14:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Michael S 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's relatively normal. Hubby and I have tried it before and it's surprisingly natural to do. It didn't feel weird or sick or dirty or anything of the sort. Everything just "clicked" and it was like an extension of an evening of entertaining friends. If you feel it's a sin, then for you, it's a sin. But to me it doesn't feel sinful. It's just good clean fun between friends. No one fell in love with the wrong partner, no on wished they could trade spouses permanently, no one felt hurt, left out, neglected, abused or degraded. I tell you...it was all good!
Ever notice how questions like these tend to get a whole lot of answers? Everyone wants to get their 2 cents in and "strike a blow for morality". Gimme a break.
2006-11-27 16:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by intuition897 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok, and this is your wife. well obviously the two of you have a very different and open relationship. If the two of you like it I love it. Not something I would do. and what are you going to do when she leaves you for this other man. And you should not be praying and asking God for something like this. You should be very careful what you ask for. You may get it and end up without your wife. God bless*****************
2006-11-27 14:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude let me tell ya the difference between a fantasy and making it a reality. Once it's a reality it never, ever leaves your mind. So in the 10% chance it goes well, against the 90% chance it ruins your marriage, keep the fantasy in your head and in your own bedroom. I heard of a guy who wanted to see his wife screwed by a big dog. She did it for him - it ended their marriage. He never got over the visual.
Proceed with caution.
2006-11-27 14:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ade 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have it going on Doc. Sorry the first attempt didn't work out for you, but praying for it to happen probably isn't gonna do you any good. I really don't think He's gonna listen, much less help it to happen.
2006-11-27 14:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋