My attractive friend from college recently came to visit. While she was visiting, I spied on her in the shower. During my peek in, I noticed she had cuts up and down her arms, now I don't know what to do. I want to help, but I don't want to let her know I'm a pervert. She ALWAYS keeps her arms covered (now I know why) so I doubt I'll be given an opportunity to pretend like I discovered them another way. Does anyone have any ideas?
2006-11-27 14:13:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg listen as bad as it was for you to spy it is even worse for her to cut herself cutting is unacceptable ( and so is sping) but still you should think back and figure out what is making her cut herself maybe she is upset for a reason maybe try and find out that reason don't just go up to her and tell her oh i saw you in the shower talk to her see what is going on maybe even take her out to dinner somewhere fancy where she might want to wear some short sleeve and try to get her to wear short sleeve tell her closest girl friend she might talk to her if she wont talk to you and her best girl friend might already know and tell you something you might want to know if the cutting continues tell a professional a siciotress even a prist ( if your cristian ) but it has to stop even if you have to take matters into someone elses hands and try that whole out to dinner fancy get her into something short sleeve
good luck i hope this helps and god bless
if you have to even a school counselore they have those in collages right
2006-11-27 14:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very gently tell her what you saw, and that you didn't mean to look but you did. Ask her if she's having problems and say that you want to listen to her. Tell her you are concerned about her and that what she's doing isn't helping her. Explain that you care about her and don't want her to hurt herself.
2006-11-27 14:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to the counselor in your college or talk to her and say the truth am pretty sure she will get mad but not that mad because you are trying to help her
2006-11-27 14:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wotever u do dont tell her she will be suspicious and yes she will think u r a pervet keep the secrets to yourself u dont need to get all jumpy about it and deffinetly dont tell your friends about it even your closest ones cos they might tell that u have been spying!!
2006-11-27 14:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋