Any couple who dont fight over all the household work that needs to be done?? Who has been married or living together for more than 2 years????
2006-11-27 14:09:26 · 14 answers · asked by LuLuBelle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, we don't argue about it anymore. When I got tired of doing it all by myself, I made a Housework chart. I listed the chores that had to be done daily,weekly, monthly and seasonably including the time it takes me to do them. After seeing it in black and white, how much I had to do after getting home, he ask what he could do to help. I let him pick the chores he wanted to do and added a few I thought he could handle. Now he's done them for the last 20 years. He doesn't do everything to my liking, so when he is not around I'll go into the corners he missed. It helps a lot,even if it isn't as well as if I had done it myself and I'll tell him ever so often how lucky I am to have a partner that helps out so much.
2006-11-27 15:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by barbara w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years here. I don't argue anymore. I just do it or it will never get done and I can't handle the frustration of arguing. He's not going to change and I've come to accept that fact after all of this time. Plus, I have 2 kids who do chores around the house to help.
2006-11-27 14:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the version between your record of classic male jobs are that they are all occasional jobs, how usually do the washers choose replacing or what percentage tree residences does a father favor to construct even the backyard in straight forward words should be mowed once a week for area of the 12 months. Then look on the artwork women individuals traditionally undertook, cooking, cleansing, childcare, procuring, washing etc. those are jobs which might want to be undertaken each day, seven days a week, fifty 2 weeks a 12 months. a guy can take an afternoon, weekend or perhaps week and not in any respect might want to do any of those jobs, yet how does a lady opt for that for an afternoon she received't preserve the youngsters or feed the relations. a guy might want to bypass to artwork and at the same time as he got here abode opt for that for something else of the evening he might want to easily sit down in the front of the television, while the female nonetheless had to feed the relations, then wash up, positioned the youngsters to mattress, address what the relations needs for something else of the day, take in the showering etc. etc. etc. besides many adult males did not construct a tree abode for his or her little ones, or do DIY jobs around the abode, yet a lady might want to no longer opt for she does no longer cook dinner any nutrients for the relations or supervise the youngsters. I truly have met many adult males even at the moment who considered that incomes the money change into all they mandatory to do and that their spouse change into there to do each and every thing else. thinking many, inspite of the actuality that no longer all women individuals now artwork outdoors the abode and nonetheless do maximum individuals of the numerous different and little ones chores and childcare, i might want to assert that it really is those adult males who evaluate mowing the backyard, cleansing the motorcar once a week and putting the garbage out as a honest contribution to the relations the egocentric ones.
2016-10-07 21:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 8 years and we don't fight over house hold things. Actually I can't remember the last time we did fight ... well except for a made up fight, but that was just so we could make up!
2006-11-27 14:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you Guys got married you became one. Not two individuals. Whenever my Husband is lacking in his duty i'm the one to stand in the gap for him. And he do like wise. It's not a 50/50 thing anymore. Wherever you are needed is your duty in that house. The house is not just the ladies anymore. It's the entire family.
2006-11-27 14:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been with my wife for over 8 year and we have never argue about household duties.. I do the cooking, cleaning and Yard she does the laundry and kids stuff and bills it pretty even to me..
2006-11-27 14:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope we do not argue here.... We work together on the household duties and it is great!
2006-11-27 14:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope we do not fight..I just complain enough and he helps...even though I do most of it. It's worth not arguing PLUS he does a BAD job....lol I had to pick and choose my battles. Plus he makes more money than me so I cut the slack. I do not know if this helps but he is not the neatest person either!!! Makes me angry but I deal with it.
I just make him rub my feet every night.....lol
2006-11-27 14:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know of one marriage, but the husband is an awful guy, and demeaning to the wife. She plays the doormat, and it makes me sick. Other than that, the answer is no, there are none that DON"T argue over it, that I have seen.
2006-11-27 14:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by oceansnsunsets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok me and my chic dont fight over chores i do the trash, and help pick up after kids in the evening but other than that i dont do anything unless something needs fixed. or if its something out side like mowing raking things like that but she is a stay at home mom
2006-11-27 14:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by stephen s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋