Now that I got your attention
Theres this girl who I was planing to break-up with my girlfriend for. I still am planing she is the most Sexy girl. She has the whole package the behind I have to say is Fine. She is hot. I know that she is totally in love with me. Cuz I spoke with her online and she says her parents don't let het date til she is 16 cuz her parents are strict and she is muslim. But I think she is gonna go with me anyways all she has to do is lie. I know she digs me cuz today at school she kept looking at me and when I look back she turns quickly. I asked her to come over my house and help me with Math and history cuz she said those her her fav subs so I figure I put it to work. She said she was gonna come a help me out tomorrow. I was just wornding How do I get her to atmit she digs me. She told me I was really cute well she told his girl who told me.
She is a total good girl and would never do anything that is against her parents but How do I get her to
2006-11-27 14:07:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And no I don't like her cuz of her looks I like her cuz she is an amazing girl
2006-11-27 14:12:28 · update #1
Just answer my question cuz I totally need help don't insult me
2006-11-27 14:13:32 · update #2
Laca what do you mean by lame plz explain am just too stupid to get anything
2006-11-27 14:37:02 · update #3
Ok kid first off I'm Muslim and I can tell you it is against Islam for girls and boys to date or for girls to have male friends. If she is Muslim she should have told you this. Either she is lying to you or her parents are not raising her correctly in the Islamic way. Find some one else to date. Oh and guys can't have female friends either in Islam. And no Muslim girl is allowed out by herself especially in the presence of a boy. And Muslim women can only marry Muslim men. And she can get in serious trouble if she goes anywhere without her father's permission or without her father or close male relative.
2006-11-27 14:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my attention and i will try to help you. I understand that the girl you like is amazing but she is not allowed to date until she is sexteen. Having her go behind her parents back is also like going against her religion to honor and obey thy mother. Not a good idea hon. You can still be friends with her. Wait until she is old enough. As for you girlfriend you should not string her alone if you no longer want to be her boyfriend so I suggest you break up with her. To spare her feelings.
This new girl will respect you more in the future if you prove to be a gentlemen and respect her parents.
2006-11-27 14:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by Staci R 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to influence this girl into going behind her parent's back. Her parents have certain religious beliefs that you should respect. If you really like this girl, then spend time with her as a friend in a group setting. You can figure out if she is someone you like, without messing up her relationship with her parents.
2006-11-27 14:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by random girl _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would not persue a relationship with this girl because if it means that she will have to disobey her parents and lie to be with you, she will never truly be happy with you. I don't know if muslims follow the 10 commandments, but in order to have an intimate relationship with you, she would have to break 2 of them. It is best to keep the girlfriend that you already have.
2006-11-27 15:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear 13-year-old,
Yes, I'd be happy to answer your question and you have my attention.
Have you ever heard of the word, "honor" or "man of honor"? A man of honor is a person who is honest, fair, and has integrity in his beliefs and actions.
You said several things that got my attention. Not one of them were even close to a "man of honor".
1. Dumping your girlfriend for a new fling
2. Shallow in why you think the new girl is a catch
3. Encouraging the new girl to break her parents rules
Your lack of honor is disgusting.
2006-11-27 14:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
isnt it annoying being 13 and not knowing if that certain someone likes you back? i m 13 and i like this guy, he- well this is your question, you should ask her out, or ask her father if you two can go out(if you want to be "spiffy") lol but best of luck!!!
have a good day and if you need to talk np just e-mail me!!!
:^) lol
2006-11-28 18:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Dani California 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go against her parents' rules. This will only cause grief to the both of you. Just hang out in groups...I hear that's what ya'll do these days.
2006-11-27 14:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Boo Boo Head 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
maybe u should tell her how u feel and tell her ur totally digging her or bring upo a conversation that can need to her admittin g she likes u good luck huuny
2006-11-27 14:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by BROK3NLI3Z20 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hu hya u think u like her for her looks so maybe you shouldn't go in back of her parents back and you shouldn't make a girl admit her feelings so leave her alone.
2006-11-27 14:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
do NOT go behind parents. i should know i did it. it only makes it hard. and you know, you may think you can do it. but trust me, you can't! I'm twelve.
2006-11-27 15:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by animallover435 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋