Me and my wife are trying to have our first child togther. but we are afraid of contracting anything so we were wondering is there anyway I can ejaculate inside ofher and still be protected from STD's and HIV?? Pleasse Answer QUICK!!
2006-11-27 14:05:23 · 22 answers · asked by Gwedha N 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
None of us are infected with anything and are both really healthy
2006-11-27 14:10:01 · update #1
ok i have to say something if you are both healty and you are married why should it matter. Non of you have an std or hiv. then why worry if you are both healty and want to have a baby then go for it. You if you are so worried about it then dont have sex and im sorry but you two are married thats what you do when you are married and have kids. im pretty sure that you arent going to give eachother anything. unless you have been tested and you have it. other wise you are just to worried over nothing. have fun with it YOUR MARRIED!
2006-11-27 14:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you and your wife are both healthy, there is no way of infecting each other. Two clean people cannot infect each other because there is no infection or disease to pass on. It sounds like you may have doubts. If so, why not go get tested? Is it something you're trying to avoid? My husband and I are both clean and healthy and we don't use protection. Currently, we are pregnant. You may feel better after talking with a doctor. He can assure you that you're just being paranoid.
By the way, in the last question you asked, you mentioned that you were 14 years old. So, I doubt you're really married. Grow up!
2006-11-28 00:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either one of you have an STD or one of you have been sleeping around. why would you use protection if your in a monogamous relationship and you have no stds? that makes no sense. as for your question, if you have an std or whatever and you have sex with you wife then she'll get it. if you use protection then she wont get the std and she also wont get a baby either. although no birth control method is 100% effective, but still its rare. so you have a choice: you can either protect yourself from stds and have no child or you can have a child and run the risk of getting an std. Why dont you both get tested?
2006-11-27 22:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u say that both of u are really healthy and dont have any diseases... So what's the issues? U should both go get retested... That way u know for sure. If ur results come back negative.. then make a baby! Dont worry about protection! Ur fine!
2006-11-27 23:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a medical check up for HIV or AIDS together with your wife if you are worry or rather that is the next resposible thing to do.. If both are cleared, then what's the problem? Other wise, I can only say that both you and your wife will just have to trust each other.
2006-11-27 22:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ho S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are worried about contracting something then you need to go to a doctor and get checked for STD's. Otherwise I don't think it is possible to use protection and get pregnant. If your wife has something or you do then unprotected sex is not the right answer and IVF might be the right choice for the two of you.
2006-11-27 22:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a really weird question. If you are married and you say you and your wife are free of STD's then it is safe for you to have unprotected sex, which is the only way to conceive naturally. You can only contract an STD by being sexually active with someone that has it.
2006-11-27 22:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by Ndpndnt 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HIV does not come out of thin air. If none of you have anything, none of you are going to get anything. Married people usually have unprotected sex. There is no way you can ejaculate in her without being protected.
2006-11-27 22:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Lippy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife should first see a counselor for you phycological problems. If you and your wife don't trust each other to have unprotected sex then why are you with each other. And like this you want to have a baby. Are you going to change the baby's diaper with gloves because you are afraid of getting someting. Go and educate yourselves first before you try to raise a child. That is my recommendation.
2006-11-27 22:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by yurian e 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious question... Are you both mentally retarded? If you don't know how STD"s are spread then don't be having sex. Are you like 11 years old? That is seriously the most rediculous question I have ever heard! UGH I got to get out of this question or I am going to flip out over how stupid that is...
2006-11-27 23:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by livindead_zombie13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋