big BULLYING PROBLEMS?

Question

Listen My Name is Danny, I'm 13 and in 8th Grade.

And I have a Bullying problem. There is this kid named, Moet. He Is a African American boy at my school.

My Height is About 5'4" His Height is about 5'6".

He is not shy AT ALL he has the biggest mouth at my school and he always talks **** about me.

I MEAN REALLY HEAVY ****.

I cant take it anymore I been trying to Ignore him. but My anger at him is so bad, if I dont do something I am gonna end up being a serial killer, from all the anger and stress on my mind.

I think There is only a 4 options to do in this case,

1. FIGHT HIM
2.CONFRONT HIM
3. TELL A TEACHER
4. IGNORE HIM

I think the only way to get him off my back is, Number 1, FIGHT HIM! Thats the only way to show Him that I'm not a push-over!

*FIGHTING CHOOSE*
I was thinking if I fight him to punch him in the neck (to knock thew wind out of him) and smash his face against the glass window.

What do you think? What number and got any advice?

Answer 1

Yo! I'm Jennah. I'm 13 just like you and I'm a middle class rebel Punk/Prep*but then again I REBEL AGAINST Preps*(in the way of cliques in my 8th Grade Class.
1.)Kids have been known to die in the vile sense that your telling so I suggest if anything buff up and just threaten him. Usually bullies are so bug that they scare people for no reason and the bigger they are the harder they fall in every aspect. So Get him riled up but not toooooo riled up!
2.)You probably would want to try this first before you try #1
3.)NO NO NO AND NO!!!! WORST POSSIBLE THING FOR YOUR REPUTATION! MY BEST FRIEND IN 6TH GRADE WAS A KNARK AND HIS REPUTATION FELL APART! HE WENT FROM HIS MIDDLE CLASS TO LOSER IN SECONDS THE NEXT TIME HE ENTERED A CLASSROOM! HE WAS PICKED ON AND GIVEN THE NAME TATTLER COCK!!! DON'T TELL A TEACHER!!!!!!! THIS GUY WILL DRIVE YOU INSANE WITH THE KNARKING INSULTS!!!!!!
4.)Probably the best choice hold off until the end of the school day come home and talk to me about it. [e-mail]

Answer 2

first of all where is the teachers and the principle while all of this is going on? i would march right into the principles office and tell him that you can not take this anymore and that you need a solution. also your mother and father should be aware of this problem and im sure that they would go to the school and handle this matter. violence only begets violence. if this boy puts his hand on you in any way, then i would call the police and report this as a domestic problem. he would be expelled and if he did it any more report him again. i would make him afraid to try anything again because he would pay dearly with being expelled or juvenile hall. i would press charges on him every time he opened his mouth and get him for harrassment.sometimes the brain is mightier than the fist.

Answer 3

Ok, I work at a high school and in our district there's a so-called zero tolerance policy on fights, bullying, etc.

I would definitely tell a teacher. If that doesn't work, tell your parents (which you should do anyhow!) and they need to talk to the principal. If that doesn't work, they need to go above the heads of the administrators, to the school district or school board itself!

You shouldn't hit him. If you do, you will be the one to get in trouble because you made it physical.

If you act afraid of him, he can probably sense it. Try to stand up to him in your attitude/posture. Get other kids involved: make your friends and anybody else you can aware of the guy. The more kids who know about it, the more power you will have. The kid might actually start backing down if he realizes he can't do this without consequences.

Answer 4

Whoa take it easy son, you dont want to end up in juvenile detention...this person gets off on the rise he can get outta people, I advise to take the high road, by that I mean turn your nose up at the smack he talks, anyone who is your friend will know that it is crap. If you confront him, you could either 1-show him you arent scared and most bullies will back off if confronted or 2 make him angrier at you for confronting him...I would continue to ignore him and ask your parents to get you a punching bag, seriously this is a good way to blow off steam, (put a picture of him on the punching bag and go to town) as for the thoughts of being a serial killer, maybe you should talk to someone, or take up some hobbies that will keep you occupied, boxing lessons are always good;)

Answer 5

Its not right that he is saying stuff about you, so dont ignore it, but I wouldnt fight him. fighting is never the right answer. I would talk to a teacher ( or my middle school had a peer mediation group). Talking to a trusted teacher will help, they usually know what they are talking about. Or if you dont really know any of your teachers confront him and tell him that it is really bothering you. Good luck with that, hope it all works out

Answer 6

If you fight him and lose you will have more kids picking on you. If you ignore him then he will think it is alright to bully you. If you tell a teacher they will call you a snitch. You are going through a hard problem. If i were you then i would laugh at everything he says and call him immature or say your mooma or stuff like that. But what ever you do dont fight him. Good Luck to you!

Answer 7

Go to the principle after school, and tell him if something isn't done about the b u l l s h i t then your parents are going to be getting a lawyer for the matter. Usually, once a school hears the word "lawyer" things happen! Good Luck, and stop taking the BS!! You should not be afraid to go to school.

Answer 8

fighting is your best bet. bullys dont mess with people that fight back, because they try to target people that dont have enough spine to fight back. If you fight back, he has no leverage over you. I have had my fair share of fights, and duking it out once and for all has worked every time for me.

Here are the lyrics to the bully song in drawn together, the show that I work on.

Bullys are people who hate themselves, abused at age six, or molested at twelve, they pick on others isnt it odd, because their real quarrel is with god. Whose afraid of a bully, not me, oh not me,

Answer 9

well im n 6 grade and i think you should tell a teacher and if that doesnt work fight but dont take the first hit cus then youll get n trouble

Answer 10

First try ignoring him and if he still persists then Fight him! Trust me, even if you don't win the fight, he will know not to pick on you again. Bullies don't like to be opposed so after a fight, I say, you'll be done with him.