big BULLYING PROBLEMS?

Question

Listen My Name is Danny, I'm 13 and in 8th Grade.

And I have a Bullying problem. There is this kid named, Moet. He Is a African American boy at my school.

My Height is About 5'4" His Height is about 5'6".

He is not shy AT ALL he has the biggest mouth at my school and he always talks **** about me.

I MEAN REALLY HEAVY ****.

I cant take it anymore I been trying to Ignore him. but My anger at him is so bad, if I dont do something I am gonna end up being a serial killer, from all the anger and stress on my mind.

I think There is only a 4 options to do in this case,

1. FIGHT HIM
2.CONFRONT HIM
3. TELL A TEACHER
4. IGNORE HIM

I think the only way to get him off my back is, Number 1, FIGHT HIM! Thats the only way to show Him that I'm not a push-over!

*FIGHTING CHOOSE*
I was thinking if I fight him to punch him in the neck (to knock thew wind out of him) and smash his face against the glass window.

What do you think? What number and got any advice?

Answer 1

Ummmm PLZ do NOT fight him...you will pay for his bully crap attitude. Tell a teacher or your parents I know I know it sounds rough but you will be better off. My son is your age and did not make the right choices...and got in HUGE trouble for it.
This year when he had that problem he told me and I went to the principal over the phone and warned them of what was going on and they cought the kid doing this to many kids the same way and expelled him. It's not you it's him so do what you can to stop it...schools take this more serious now..Lay off the threats if you go loco on him they will read this and it will be held against you.
Good Luck hope you do what is right.

Answer 2

#5 & #4 - You are a part of the problem? In this case, you won't even know it. You should find a teacher in a department like...football, and ask them what is wrong with them and you.

Paper trail. Docment what is happening. Do this for a week. Take a stand in class, in front of the teacher. When this goes bad, the next day when nothing has changed...publish. This gets dropped off at the office, given to your teacher, and lastly to your parents when you get home. In that order. Once published, they have to act. If they don't act, publish again. When you end up with the broken arm, leg, face, etc. now you can show neglegence. Columbine never had to happen. Because we didn't learn from this, it will happen again. This is very sad. The good thing here is, they will pay your college. :) They do not have the right to assult you, man or woman.

Reminder - You need to know if you are a part of the problem. And, before you publish, you'll need to know if you are just whining, or are really being harrassed: Bodily fluids, sick days, emergency room injuries, chemicals, etc.

The back of the head, neck, groin, eyes, teeth, nose, etc. are off limits. You might actually hurt someone. This is bad. Say it with me, "Bad." You shouldn't even have these thoughts. You are in school. Your job is to get into college. You are successfully distracted. Welcome to the real world. What are your goals, hopes, and dreams? Seriously consider not responding to them, and stay focused on where you are going.

Race shouldn't be a factor. However, always consdier social-economics. Are they the rich kids that will never get touched by the administration? Are they the poor kids that have no aspirations? Are they out of touch with God? Do they pack weapons in their spare time? Bullies come in all sizes. You might find out their life-style will take care of the problem for them, becuase if they have no consequences for their actions, like criminals, they will get deeper, and deeper until they can't back out. If the teacher can't fix them, what makes you think you can?! Time to ignore them, take notes, and stay focused.

Answer 3

I may be a girl, but I"m a black belt in taekwondo. If you are really having anger problems, try getting into boxing or something like that. Taekwondo really helped me with my anger. About what you should to about it right now. I would first try ignoring him some more. It's not like he's doing anything but talking. If that didn't work, I would confront him. If that still didn't work, I would tell a teacher or someone that could do something. Atleast you could have a laugh at watching him get in trouble. But then again he might come back at you. So I would be prepared to defend yourself. Don't bash his face in, just throw him on the ground. You've already one the fight if you get him on the ground and you're not. Put him in an arm bar, my favorite is the chicken wing, you can make him do whatever you want from there. Or you can break his wrist. If you want more advice, join a martial art. Taekwondo taught me a lot about fighting, I've learned a lot of street stuff in taekwondo too. If you want to know more, email me. I'd be glad to talk to you about anything. ([e-mail])

Answer 4

Ok, I work at a high school and in our district there's a so-called zero tolerance policy on fights, bullying, etc. I would definitely tell a teacher. If that doesn't work, tell your parents (which you should do anyhow!) and they need to talk to the principal. If that doesn't work, they need to go above the heads of the administrators, to the school district or school board itself! You shouldn't hit him. If you do, you will be the one to get in trouble because you made it physical. If you act afraid of him, he can probably sense it. Try to stand up to him in your attitude/posture. Get other kids involved: make your friends and anybody else you can aware of the guy. The more kids who know about it, the more power you will have. The kid might actually start backing down if he realizes he can't do this without consequences.

Answer 5

Years ago, I would have told you to kick his butt, but now...you really have to be careful. Kids don't just get into scraps anymore. If you happened to win that fight, he would lose face and come back with perhaps, a weapon of some kind. I would let the school counselor or your teachers know what's going on. They may have other complaints on this kid already. Fighting will only get YOU into trouble and that's not fair to you.

Answer 6

not to sound like a hippie but fighting is never the answer. i am iin the 6 th grade and in the third grade there was this girl named emily who used to beat me up. when i told the teacher everything got better,also thisyear there was this boy who shall remain nameless thrie to break into mine and my moms phone messages, i talked to the councelor and found out ythat i shouldnt feel distressed because he had been stalking other girls too, so try to tell a teacher or a counseler

Answer 7

DO NOT HIT HIM, UNLESS YOU WANT TO GET EXPELLED.
there was 2 catfights at my school today, and they all got in huge trouble.
i say tell a teacher. they can get you out of this mess.
good luck

Answer 8

tell a teacher or a parent ok