My ex bf was only good to me in the beginning. He started lying to me about everything, yet I "loved" him. He told me he only did it cause he "loved" me. I don't need advice on love. I'm good in that department, except the fact that I feel in love with a dip wad. I have another boyfriend, but I'm still working on getting over my ex. I really need any tricks that anyone has. I've already gotten rid of everything he gave me, but his locker is next to mine at school and I would change lockers, but I'm by my friends too. I try not to talk to him, but he's stupid, he fails classes, so now he's in one of my classes. I just want to get over him so that I don't feel anything anymore. Help me please.
2006-11-27 14:01:16 · 15 answers · asked by toxic_raptor8 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well since you have a new bf spend more time with him focus on him think about him and your happiness will soon overcome you and you will forget about your ex and your friends focus on them too and do things to get your mind off him like make sure that your mind doesn't wander and your mind is always on something if your mind wanders you ll end up thinking about him as i said spend time with your new bf and your friends and focus more on school maybe even get yourself involved in school activities and playing a sport or instrument would be perfect when playing a sport or instrument your head must always be in the game or music and sooner or later you will forget you ever had a ex bf
hope this helPS
ps. remember what your ex has done and said he is a jerk and you deserve better
2006-11-27 14:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question on how to get rid of love, I don't know how to tell you this exactly, but use respect as a basis. Use the fact that they apparently do not love you, why waste your love, talent, and respect on them? Look at them through someone elses eyes looking at you. Picture yourself as a rag-doll. Do not get me wrong, don't fret on it, because that can drive you crazy with more questions than answers, but you can impose a certain "putrid sense" to them. Good luck, be sure to read the rest of my comment.
What I do is in my head, and I really wish I could tell you how. I have applied this a few times in life and it works for me, I can instantly drop feelings, but if you figure this out, be warned, in my case it is permanent and absolute. I have not figured a way to cover my feelings, I can literally turn them off.
Better yet, if you can make yourself not think of him at all, then thats the best route. You are way to young to burden yourself like this honey, but I wont preach. I really do hope you find the way that works for you, I think you will very quickly.
2006-11-27 22:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This how u start u remember every lie and bad thing he's done and every time u think about loving him u just remember and u will get over that feeling' every time it works for me and I hope it work for u. and by the way I hope u not using Ur new boyfriend? the reason I ask because if u in a new relationship y even think about Ur ex? good luck.
2006-11-27 22:13:56 · answer #3 · answered by msgris2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I shudder to think of a world where we cease to feel....you will always "feel" something but eventually it will fade to a school memory you'll smile about some day. Being in such close proximity is gonna be hard to handle. Try this....every time you look at him or have to "deal" with him in any way....think....he's somebody elses problem now and I'm free of the "dork" ( or insert whatever phrase or word works for you ) and above all...Be Happy..you are going to be fine. Good luck.
2006-11-27 22:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby to try and keep your mind off of him, when he's in your class set as far away from him as possible, and just don't pay attention to him.. go to your locker and get away as fast as possible, try not to even be around him...
Find things to get your mind preocupied on besides him.
2006-11-27 22:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by StarChild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with old friends, especially those you lost touch with since you started dating him.
Flirt,date, and enjoy yourself, but don't look for anything serious until you forget about him. And that will happen!
Oh yeah, throw away pictures, letters, teddy bears or anything else that'd remind you of him. Move one completely.
2006-11-27 22:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mark S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think any1 really needs a bf.
but as for getting over it, think of it this way: its ur ex's loss. hes a jerk and you simply dont need him because no1 deserves to be treating like that!
you need to find a guy that will resepct you, a guy that u can trust
2006-11-27 22:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by jumanjifaceee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like my father always told me "Time is a Healer" stay steadfast and strong and as time goes on you'll feel better and thankful that you let him go
2006-11-27 22:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus all of your attention on yourself and your new man. Just don't even look at him pay him no mind like he aint even there
2006-11-27 22:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by hotblacanesemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move lockers and seats and don'y even think about takin him back you'll still get to see your gf's all the time no biggie.
2006-11-27 22:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by groovergabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋