Nothing sleazy here---my husband is his boss's best friend--nothing sexual there so far as much as I can tell. The boss got divorced and my husband says she is lonely and anyway it is between friends..
I am confused. I want to do the right thing, but also to help my husband's boss who is really a beautiful woman. I don't swing both ways, but I could, with this one.
2006-11-27 13:55:51 · 9 answers · asked by paanbahar 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Having sex with your husband's female boss could be very lucrative in a sexual harassment lawsuit. Talk to a lawyer first and then take it from there. You could stand to make a great deal of money.
2006-11-27 14:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well everyone seems to think that this is a disaster...well I for one will give you something other to think about...
Your last statement, "I don't swing both ways...." tells me that you and your husband are in the lifestyle. Taking this bit of information I say let your conscience be your guide. Some women are bi and some are not. You do some interest however and be "bi-curious".
If you are also good friends with your husband's boss this may work to mutual advantage. Non-monogamy is very much around today as are bi women.
You might look into polyamory as well and decide if maybe this could be an option. I have attached a couple of web sites that may help in your decision. In the end however, you have to decide what YOU would like to do. As a side note I would say go for it...what have you got to loose.
The sites I have given will also lead back to a whole bunch of information. Look it over and maybe it will help you. If you would like more help or information please email me through answers.
2006-11-27 14:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong on so many levels. Your husband's boss is a beautiful, lonely, recently divorced woman, and he wants you to sleep with her as well?
Open your eyes!
2006-11-27 14:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ceajae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As experienced swingers, we'd say "don't crap where you eat." Keep business and your personal life seperate.
Our motto is "it's easier to make friends of swingers than swingers of friends." When the relationship starts with sex it is defined that way and sex doesn't "change" the relationship. Sex will change the relationship between your husband and his boss. Guaranteed.
2006-11-29 08:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
DISASTER!!! To consider such a thing is outrageous. Your husband has been with her and wants the other woman and the wife together. Look for a lawyer and use some common sense.
2006-11-27 14:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by blissfulawakening2k3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't do it. You are just diving into a lot of potential problems. What will happen when helping his boss out (if you call it that) turns into a regular thing.
2006-11-27 14:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sound like he has had her before if he has the opp he just might do it alone i think its kinda a asshole thing to do to you this isn't for a healthy marrige maybe if you were not married it could be a question you should consider but NOW why JUST MY OPINION
2006-11-27 14:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by topmostezekiel 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This has got disaster written all over it.
2006-11-27 13:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with him. a disaster waiting to happen.
2006-11-27 14:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Cole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋