What do you have to start feeling to get out there and start dating after your husband kicked you out and totally TOTALLY ruined your self-esteem. What is that feeling or sing that says you are ready to try life again? thanks.
2006-11-27 13:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it wiill really take a long time to recover..stop thinking but it maybe for a month or 1/2 years or 1 years..depends...
2006-11-27 13:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by CuRiOuS bOuT jOb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before trying to start another relationship, you need to feel that you are whole and healed from the damage to your self esteem. Get involved in activities that will make you realize you are an important and capable person who is able to take care of herself.When you are strong in your belief in your abilities as a person then you can build a healthy relationship with another. Being dependant on others for your happiness or expecting others to build your self esteem will only lead to more hurt.
2006-11-27 14:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a wrecked marriage is not the end of the world. You didn't say how long you and your ex had been married, that plays a factor, usually the rule of thumb should be 1 year for each 5 yrs of marrage to completely have your head on straight again.
A group I was associated with was named, "Divorce Care". There are groups all over the United States and Canada. This group does wonders towards getting someone who is divorced or seperated back on a good track. Please go to their web site and see if there is a group close to where you live.
Take care and I hope this will help you.
2006-11-27 14:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you like but dont look at dating as a commitment ,build your self esteem up again thats important so you end up in a healthy relationship not a bad one and trust me when you find the right one you will know. Have been apart from my ex husband for 2 and a half years now....went out with a few but things werent quite right and just last week i met the man i know i am going to be with for the rest of my life and he adores me like i do him
2006-11-27 14:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should work and building up your self esteem, before you start dating. Try positive affirmations. Remind yourself that you're a beautiful, intelligent woman with a lot to offer. Trust me - you'll dating and on your way to happiness in no time.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 14:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by venus13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your ready to take on life again.
2006-11-27 13:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can date when ever u want
2006-11-27 13:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by MELISSA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋