2006-11-27 13:34:46 · 14 answers · asked by shareej2003 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I feel that if you are going to have an abortion you should research it. Take a look at the pictures and what will happen to the child and mother. You should also see what procedures they offer.
You should also consider adoption, abortion isn't a birth control.
There are two types of adoption open and closed. Most adoption agencies will help you get the help you need during the pregnancy. If you choose to have an open adoption, you choose the family you will give the child to, and will can choose to be apart of his/her life. It is up to you.
If you choose to have a closed one, you information will be kept to the agency. You can decide if you want them to give the child your information when they are old enough if they want to find you.
There are so many more options out there than just abortion. Research your options. They also have counslers who will help you along, because this can be a difficult choice for many.
Good luck with your choice.
2006-11-27 13:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally recommend adoption but if you must (because I AM a perfect stranger) I would suggest getting a part time job or borrowing money from parents. If you dont want anyone to know about it the job is the best way to go. You and the baby's mama can get a short term job, just enough to get the money and have the money in about 2 weeks. But adoption truly is the better choice
2006-11-27 13:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by texastreasure 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to planned parenthood and see what they can do in terms of a payment plan. Go to a pawn shop and hock anything of value. Talk to the parents of both parties and see if they can help. Borrow money from friends. But, before you do anything, think really carefully if this is what you want.
2006-11-27 13:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you called abortion clinic to see if there is assistance ? they may have #s to someone or know of services that may be willing to help with that . this is your decision dont worry about what the people say. good luck
2006-11-27 13:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Nava 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO to planned parenthood. They charge on a sliding V scale meaning you pay what you can pay. They can also do free abortions.
2006-11-28 12:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by mommysforever.org 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not have the baby and give it up for adoption? There are many couples out there that would love to raise a child.
2006-11-27 13:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by MovetoLatinAmerica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it up for adoption. Dont kill it. There are so many couples out there that cant have children and would love a baby.
2006-11-27 13:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are so stupid and retarted..
why would you even think of an abortion..
why would anyone think of it??
you are KILLING an unborn child...
you should be ashamed of yourself...
unless the doctor(certified..meaning real)
says so cuz of medical reasons..
I think people that have sex and then don't want
to face the concequences are just plain ignorant.
So face your consequences and stop killing
innocent unborn children.
2006-11-27 14:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by erickaaaaaa 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just have the baby why pay to kill a baby huh????? just have it and give it up for adoption at least giev the child a life instead of killing it
2006-11-27 14:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
will the father not help...you didn't make the baby alone. if you have insurance, some insurance companies will cover an abortion. you have to do what you have to do...good luck i wouldn't want to be you now.
2006-11-27 13:45:25 · answer #10 · answered by be calm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋