Hey how many people think that been bi is bad well my best friend is gay and my ex is bi.. and me.........
2006-11-27 13:00:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
how can bi be bad? its the best of everything!
what makes it bad is ppl who have "moral" issues and are uptight and have too much guilt.
2006-11-27 13:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm bi, and I think it's great. It's no better or worse than being straight or gay. You can be happy that you have the ability to see the beauty in all people, regardless of their gender.
To Rabbit: if society, religion, etc. didn't try to instill in people the idea that being gay is bad, then people wouldn't feel guilty about being gay. Once I realized that society is wrong, I was able to accept that my bisexuality is a natural thing. Let's get one thing clear: most people who may be worried about being bi or gay aren't wondering if they were born with it or not. They KNOW they were born with it. If it was something that they could change, they would, because that would kind of take away the need to worry about it, don't you think? And if it's not innate, why would people choose it, when the world is so against it? Why on earth would someone choose to be gay in a world where gay people are discriminated against and hated? It's something we're born with, just like people are born straight.
2006-11-27 14:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by jenjubatus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being Bi is not a bad thing, just not totally socially accepted. If being Bi is what you are you need to be comfortable with yourself. Don't feel bad because a narrow minded person says it's wrong. As far as friends and family go, love and support them as you did before you knew they were Bi. They haven't changed, only their social tag did.
2006-11-27 13:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by sto_243 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being bi is not considered bad for you, because you are female, however, being a bi male... most consider it not only bad, but... gay. Bi men don't really exist... they're in denial. Obviously, if I still like women (and I do) I am not gay, but heck with what I feel, the traditionalists all say you are either straight or gay... bisexuality is a myth. Bi women are hot and beautiful together as well as highly desirable to men (or women), however, bi men are sick, gross and undesirable not to mention... gay. Again, to reiterate, these are not my beliefs, but society's in general.
Being bisexual in itself is not bad, but so many on both sides of the fence feel it's a cop-out or we're in a phase or in denial of our homosexuality/heterosexuality. That is biphobia. Do not be ashamed if you find you are bi... there is nothing to feel ashamed of what you feel, whom you are attracted to or whom you love. To me, I think love goes beyond gender, however, I personally am 60/40 physically bi and 90/10 emotionally. I have yet to experience any real emotional attachment to anyone of my own sex, but I won't rule out that possibility... who knows? As of now, my heart still belongs to my wife... and my body to whomever... LOL.
You hint that you may be possibly bi or maybe what is called "Bi-curious" and again, that is okay to be undecided on your orientation. I imagine you are probably young, so that is only natural. You will never fully realize your orientation until you have experienced relationships with either or both sexes... having feelings are a part of your sexuality, but experience plays a much bigger role in DEFINING it... and repetetive behavior solidifies it. You will know in time who or what you are or whom you love. In the meantime, enjoy the journey, fellow sojourner.
2006-12-01 09:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being Bi myself I obviously have a bias, but sex researcher Alfred Kinsey thought that the majority of people were some degree of Bi, although most have a preference one way or the other. That being the case, it's not bad, just a fact of life.
2006-11-27 14:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being Bi is a very natural thing, just like being str8 or gay. Sigmund Freud (the psychiatrist, father of psychoanalysis) thought that EVERYONE was bisexual. I don't know about that. After all he reached most of his conclusion studying middle aged women with sexual/marital problems.
In my oppinion, it doesnt matter what you are. As long as you have healthy relationships. And more importantly a healthy self esteem. Love yourself honey, if you love yourself and are confortable with your self, then others will love you. and treat you with the respect and VALUE that you are due. Because if they don't you will have the security to send them packing. People can reject you, but as long as you love yourself it doesnt matter.
its part of life that not everyone is going to like you all the time, and thats ok.
2006-11-27 13:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bert 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm bi and I don't think it's a bad thing. Plenty of people disagree, but I don't care.
2006-11-27 13:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Confusing sentence structure but if I understand it right then no. I can't really call it bad when I am bi, just enjoy your sexuality responsibly and with other consenting adults then it doesn't matter what your orientation is.
2006-11-27 18:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not bi but I'm not against it or think its bad his/her own way own life to handle and if that's how they like their life then so be it there's nothing to change
2006-11-27 13:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by tery 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's bad if your straight. If you're Bi, it's bad to be straight. Get the message?
2006-11-27 13:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by flip4449 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey its the best of both worlds! I happen to love the person I am in love with, not their sex. Been in serious relationships with both. Present love of my life happens to be a girl. (and i have been married and I have two wonderful sons!
2006-11-27 18:02:16 · answer #11 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋