My friends used to think he just wanted to be my friend, but we don't have too much in common, and when he contacts me via aim, he uses very random ways to strike conversation. In summary, he has approached me in all the same ways straight men interested in me sexually have pursued me, yet he has not once called me "hot" or "sexy" or hinted at that. Also, it has surprised a lot of people that he is gay because he does not come across that way (though, I am too smart to stereotype.) I can't figure out why he wants to be friends SO BADLY because none other of my girl friends would make random/attention getting conversation when we hardly know each other.
He has friends, so it is not like he's needy for a friend. I have not gone out of my way to be his friend, either.
Also, on facebook, he is interested only in men...no one would have inhibitions about admitting their interest in women (that's my argument to those who believe he must be bisexual).
Can anyone shed light on this?
2006-11-27 12:54:51 · 16 answers · asked by stina h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Doubt that he's pursuing you sexually, sounds like you may be his trophy friend. If you were older, the gay community would refer to you as a FagHag if you liked to hang around gays and be the Queen Bee. No offense meant, at all! Lots of women are faghags and very happy being the center of attention with young, handsome men.
2006-11-27 13:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 21:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever flirted with someone just for the fun of it? He is flirting because he enjoys it and enjoys the attention from an attractive female. Maybe even fantasizes about what it would be like.
2006-11-27 13:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really attracted to you then most likely he is not gay. If he is gay then maybe he just likes you. Nothing wrong with that. Just be friendly and enjoy his friendship and soon you will have the answer to your confusion. Don't try to push for either one or the other. Just wait and see.
2006-11-27 13:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by papricka w 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have hit the nail on the head. He may alsohave intentions of eventually marrying for children and than split.
Or he may not be 100% sur eand wantrs to experiment.
It also be that you are so darn good looking(which is likely) that he can't stay away from you.
2006-11-27 12:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be the guys friend or in this case the gay friend , no harm done maybe he is tired of being gay and he wants to change , and has found someone that he can be conformable with .
2006-11-27 13:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to be your girlfriend-friend, not your romantic lover. Go shopping with him or go get a pedicure together and see what happens.
2006-11-27 12:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants the best of both worlds, but do you want the worst of both worlds? Should I spell it out?
2006-11-27 16:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't date him, you'll only get hurt, ask any women who's dated a gay man, some of them didn't even know it till they dumped them for another guy.......
2006-11-27 13:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by 9888khgd6 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he could be bi, or maybe he just likes to flirt. dont be to afraid to confront him about it if it really gets bad
2006-11-27 12:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Beanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋