well all my friends are guys(im a girl) and i think they always just wanna hang out with me cauz they think that we'll end up going out with each other(past experiences) anyways, i have no friends that are girls that wanna hang out with me on the weekend. right now everything has gone wrong in my life, my family has turned their back on me, i have no friends and the only guy i love will never return the same feelings. i know i sound like a complainer, but right now im just really down. apparently the best way to start is to have a good attitude towards everything thats shittty is going on, wanna tell me how im suppose to do that or make my life better? or especially how can i make friends that are girls? wth.
2006-11-27 12:41:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I really don't know what to say except to have a friend you have to be a friend. I don't believe there is something wrong with all the girls that know you. Yes, I know what it's like firsthand for females to be jealous of you but you have to put yourself out there. Be friendly and let them know you would like some girl pals too.
As far as the depression, sorry it sounds like depression. You might want to talk to someone about that. Your family turned your back on you? What did you do to deserve that? I could go on forever.....if you feel the need email me I would love to chat.
Good luck!
2006-11-27 12:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mega 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to change your world to get the type friends you want. You will have to sit and address the reasons why you dont have friends.
Join some clubs or youth groups in your area, get involved in the community. Find new friends who want the same things out of the life as you do.
As far as boys go- leave them a lone for a while- dont be so quick to jump the gun. Once others see that you have changed for the positive, then the more they will trust you and want to be around you.
Above all else, a friends want to have someone they can trust. They want someone who wont go behind their back and do things that can hurt them. They also want someone who respects themselves.
Just change up what you do- get involved with positive people and you will get people in your life that are truly worth it.
Also- the only person you need to depend on is yourself- when no one else believes in you- the least you can do is believe in yourself. Set goals and follow them- dont bend or break them. When people try to keep you down, show them that you can overcome everything they throw. The best revenge is success...
Good luck!
2006-11-27 20:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try getting invovled with the girls in your class.....or try sports like vollyball the girls will probably become your friends. but they might not know you wanna hang out with them so when you make the girls like you give em your number and ask them to hang out with you this weekend.
2006-11-27 20:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when feeling low, go shop till you drop, works for me all the time
2006-11-28 02:16:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
will i'll be happy to be your friend. here my email address efrain78223@yahoo.com if you need a friend..
2006-11-27 20:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋