How should I deal with this?

Question

I'm moving, and I'm going to miss all of my friends so so so so so so so so so so so so much!!!!!!! How am i supposed to deal with life??? I've already cryed over it before, my best friends all live here, and I'm moving like three countries away!!!! The reason this is in the friends by the way, is because that's my main worry, moving away from my friends. My question in all of this, is what should I do to get over it, how will I deal with moving?

By the way, I'm not an outgoing person at all!! The way I got all of these great friends was from my other friend who I got from my lil sis. Actually once the people are my friends then I'm outgoing just around them, but not at first!

Answer 1

I've moved tons. Last time was 4 months ago and 2 countries away.

The first year is the toughest, the second it begins to feel like home IF YOU LET IT.

Don't compare the new area to your old home. Accept the new place as is. Not worse or the culture 'wrong', just different.

expect culture shock, google it before you go and do some reading.it's good to know before you're in the thick of it.

Once your there set up a blog to share with your friends back home. It's much more interesting then telling the same stories of your' new experiences over and over again. Your friends can comment back and stuff.

Chat with them on MSN
Invite them to come and visit

I'm thinkin you're young, that makes Lang learning easier, be encouraged.

Try to focus on the positives though it's real tough right now.
Go on line and find read about your new home.

If you are able to face this challenge you'll grow alot through this.
It's OK to cry, just wipe your tears when you're done and move on. Over time you'll cry less and less.

Blessings

Answer 2

your not alone your not the only person thats had to move away from the people she knows and loves,try to keep in touch with them through letters and emails and maybe you can visit them in the summer you can send pics through the mail and do things before you leave so they can remember you like have a big party or go out and have the best time of your lives and when you`ve moved try to make some new friends they wont be like your old ones but you might meet some you like just open your heart to new experiences

Answer 3

I worked for General Motors for 31 yrs and every time I moved to a different location I made more "better friends" at each location and so will you if ya talk to the people ya meet

Answer 4

psssh no deal i elect my £10,000 whats up do you think of there actually is a banker on deal or no deal? or is noel in basic terms speaking on the telephone to himself? or something stupid like that

Answer 5

there are more people in this world, you will make more friends
i spent my childhood in 4 different countries. i always made new friends. its easy unless your not an outgoing social type.

Answer 6

Well, as soon as you get moved in, start emailing your friends back home. Try to make new friends as soon as possible, so you're not so lonely too.

Answer 7

You should write them every chance you get and just send photos and try and make new friends but never forget your old ones.

Answer 8

Do your best to stay in touch. You can write letters or send emails. My best friend is in Germany and we do whatever we can to stay in touch.

Answer 9

oh thats so sad i remember when i moved but totally not that far i would suggest going to visit them whenever u can on breaks!! im so srry

Answer 10

Don't worry you will meet new friends. You can always email your friends