Ok here it goes... I am having alot of problems with my boyFriend! Im a Latina , and my boyfrind is also !! iim 15 and he treats me like i am his dog !! He has me on check 24/7 and i can go with my ladies .. i cant talk to anu guys but my close friends and family! and he hits me When i do ANYTHING that he doesnt like !! and this goes out to the GUYS .. WHY DO YOU THINK YOU GUYS CAN DO THIS ?!?!? at times he scres me... WAT SHOULD I DO ??? B/C I DO REALLY LOVE HIM AND I GOT HIS NAME TATTOOED ON MY ARM !!
2006-11-27 12:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by Gigi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He thinks he can, cause you let him. Get away from him.
2006-11-27 12:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you are just a kid trying to live the life of a grown woman.You are in a going nowhere relationship(get out while you can).He doesn't see you as his girlfriend but as someone that he has no respect for.His conduct shows that he is a coward and low self esteem.He feels the only way he can feel like a big man is to beat you.He knows that you are no threat to him he draws his strength from you when he beats and order you around it is his only way of feeling he has control.Have you let your family know that he is beating on you if not do so.This is a life or death relationship for you and it is up to you to love yourself enough to walk away and never return.An abusive relationship never gets better only worst.Walk away while you still have you life and is able to.if you are serious about leaving him then you need to report the abuse to the police so the you can have it on record.get a restraining order on him.Trust me hon love has nothing to do with this relationship it is truly based on power and control.GET OUT NOW.
2006-11-27 13:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by reree41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are only 15 what are you doing with this guy. He is a control freak get away from him. He will become abusive. Then have that tatto redone and have his name covered up. Sorry you may not want to hear this but you are too young to be in a relationship like this. There are many other guys out there and one that will treat you like a human. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. YOu are not a piece of property.
2006-11-27 12:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is in the sun DO NOT wet him. That will make him 10X hotter than before. If the collar is not imbedded, Cut it off. If it is and you cannot take him to the vet call them they will take you step by step on what to do. You really should take the dog w/ you. Call the pound and tell them you found a dog who was being highly mistreated, Take pictures of the dog and nurse him back to health and then if there is any trouble you will have proof that you have nursed him from animal cruelty. You really need to get the collar off of him and give him a bath in a nice cool place. Giving him water like you are doing is great. Sometimes the dog will get soo hot and the drink cold water and the result is the either getting diarhea or puking. Good Luck. Please take that dog w/ you and take care of him.
2016-05-23 15:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Beverly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold up u 15 n already got his name on you see that's where you messed up now he probably thank he own you then you said he hit you the first time he did that it should've been over because if he do it once an get away with it he is gonna do it again( has he hit you more than once ) and plus you too young to be stuck in an abusive relationship so get out while you can eventually he IS going to end up hurting you even if it's not on purpose an if your scared 911 is the best # i can give you so please please be safe and careful and think real hard if you love him or if your just scared he'd hurt you if you don't( email me n tell me what hap pens PLEASE i really want to know because men hitting women scares me )
2006-11-27 12:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was gonna say have your dad take care of it, but you're 15 and have a tattoo -- no matter what it is -- so my guess is, you're dad won't be much help.
2006-11-27 12:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him right away before it turns imposible to do so..remember violence always find it's way out and incuding killing you......
2006-11-27 12:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's being too possesive and he hits u???????????? dont allow him to do so, back off
2006-11-27 12:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by Nanthini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋