Have you dated a Japanese woman before? How do they compare to American women?

Question

Don't say all people are the same. Different cultures, different people. Typically, what are Japanese women like?

Answer 1

To get answer to this question you should listen a song of Ace of Base titled TOKYO GIRL and you will know everything.

Japanese girls. City girls are sharp, fast, 75% carry Make up kit in their bags, always ready to shop using bf if available.
Village girls, simple, slow.

Generally speaking, fashionable, shy to talk with strangers, loves music, eating, shopping, fashion, reading(fashion magazine mostly) listening music.

If become friend will not leave, honest. If today make you bf the next morning they could say, MO Akita, Sayoonara.
Then next time next bf. Usually they prefer to have various forms of bf. But not all.

Dating spots Shibuya/Harajuku/Shinjuku in Tokyo

One thing is common in all, sincere, honest, kind but not all remember.

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Answer 2

i've got considered some eastern exhibits and the girls usually fall into 2 categories. they are the two stunning with super boobs and get pushed around lots or good-minded and could not take any crap from men. The good-minded ones usually hit the guy interior the top or interior the face a pair of circumstances...its somewhat weird and wonderful. What does Athena propose with the aid of commonplace eyes? Can she even tell the version between a eastern and a chinese language?

Answer 3

They're the same as "white" women. When you say American, I'll assume you meant "white" women.

The sterotype of the "skinny, beautiful, submissive" Asian female is totally false. Japanese females are normal females - not submissive, not always feminine, not always skinny/shapely, not passive, and not vile "dragon ladies" as culture and media portrays them.

Answer 4

HEY thats the meanest question iv ever heard. im half japanese too you know. anyway...
well, iv gone to a japanese school and few american ones, but. in japan, girl think and talk about the same thing, so if someone hates me, basicly, everyone hates me. they also think they are babies, and act like it, and like those micky things wich i find really annoying.

Answer 5

Honestly no one Can give you a perfect answer. I can tell you from dating Black/White/Asian etc,here in America that if you were in their country of ethnic origin it would be different.
A Japanese girl(as well as some other Asian women) born and raised in the US is diff from her Japanese raised counterpart in ways related to everyday habits to cultural identity. Many of my Asian friends/co-workers/colleagues/ frequently told me of the pressure they face from family ties in America.
They are pressured many times to stay within their ethnicity or at least to do well financially for their people.
Will this affect who she dates? In many cases (not all ) yes. Many of the grand parents and parents don't want to see their daughter even with another Asian in many cases if that group is lower on the socio-economic totem pole. I WILL NOT GENERALIZE...but, chances are there will be someone pressuring her if you are not Asian or at least a financially well to do White of auspicious family background. Nature of the beast SOMETIMES with this situation. Not all Asians will bow to the pressure but it ain't easy.

All that being said, a Japanese girl in Japan will still have pressure but you are on her territory. Her family is there, her culture, her roots. She is more comfortable at home with support if you screw up. She can be loyal and devoted as is her upbringing but you screw up and she can quietly "obey" as she puts the screws to you. They are not dumb or stupid little slave women. They just go about things a little quieter and subtler than what some of us are used to in the west.
I have found that as a non-White it is not easy to even get the time of day from an ethnic Japanese woman in the US. In Japan, wow, there are many options. But as a group with an insular reputation they are fiercely protective of their group when outside of their ancestral homeland.
Many buy into White racial stereotypes of other races due to lack of historical perspective of their own. And of course once someone is raised in America its a whole diff ballgame.

Answer 6

Well, I must say... I traveled to Japan not long ago and I'm quick at learning cultures.
1, First, Japanese women LOVE make-up. It's not like love for some cases. Somehow it's just been a rule lately that they must have make-up. It has become quite a necessity to them now. One housewife has to put on her cosmetics just to go out of her house to dump rubbish.
2. Obedient. Duh, From their roots, they just go "Hai"(yes) wherever they go. It was from their old times, there was a shortage of guys, so whenever a man comes to the women-filled village, he's the King, and set these rules of strict obedience. It has been going on until now. What was that guy's name again? I don't remember...
3. If you're dating a Jap, be prepared to be pushed around. If you marry one, and you are working there, you have no last-minute preparations. You can't sleep until last 10 minutes before going to work. They'll wake you early, prepare everything at your feet, at huff you away. They push you at keeping a style which she likes when she's with you, your clothing, perhaps more..?
4. If your Jap-girl has an obsession, you will literally UNDERSTAND what "obsession" really means. I mean like, when they like something, they just dig into it until the point where even you will think is ridiculous.
5. A Japanese girl, especially city ones, will expect highly of her boy, so it's like a constant battle on keeping each other high with pride and dignity. Fashionable, not geeky. They prefer men in fantasies, just dream of a wet dream and mostly I think it is the Japanese girl's expectations. Think of the older western times where the people have dancing parties. Pride, dude, pride. They also sometimes shoe their boys to others to compare. But this only occurs to some only.
6. Prepare for tasty meal! Unless your gal is the exception of the rule...
7. Water shortage? Japs use more water then any country in the world. They take bath ALOT. And they don't get skin cancer. It's the healthy food that helped them. Or I should say, prepare fore nice bath?
8. And for most cases, don't even DARE to talk bad about ancestors. It's worse then talking bad things about a living person. Clerks would stop in front of the picture of their deceased master and bow down, saying "Hai!" Or "Good morning", and even saying bye to the picture or altar when they've finished working.

It's just for fun. Many of those girls are like that. Asides from that many are also very sweet-natured. Remember the above mentioned of course does not apply to all individuals. It's just a few obvious points.

Answer 7

asian women in general are pretty good,
but dude.....u have to be asian and dating them in asia to really see their true nature, the way they are.
but as a white dude, dating them here in america,
u will see the transformed version of them.
the materialistic version of them. it is sad...but they are ashamed of themselves and seek out white dudes to try to become more western, and in turn, they spew hatred on their kin and ancestry.
but...yeah. they're obedient and all that, but make sure u got plenty of money, and be prepared for when they start to sleep around with other men.

Answer 8

They are good at cooking Asian foods. And they are more particular in their tastes.

And you(her bf) would be a gourmet, too. I am sure that. *smile*

Answer 9

I wish Jappies are da cutest

Answer 10

Hey everyone................This guy is asking this question but yet he has a pregnant girlfriend and a pregnant wife.