ok im in a 4 years relationship.We live 2gether in his house.His work engages him to be in another city during the week but he comes home as often as he can,thats from 5 to 3 days a week.He has helped me with my job,to open my own businness,he always takes me on his trips,holidays,presents and he shows love,i cant complain about anything.the thing is i know that occasionally he has sex with other women but i know for a fact its only sex,no emotional involvement, and its just to recharge his batteries,to experience sg different.I pretend not to know about it as he never had a change of behavior towards me,instead he loves me even more.i know he does.dont u think its possible that he really does?
2006-11-27 11:07:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah it's possible that he does but why would you want to place yourself into that type of a predictable. his going outside; heck you may as well say that it's consensual and that the relationship is open, because you won't confront him on the issue. how would that change it if you did; it's worth loosing him to find out because if you continue in denial as you are, you may not really have him to begin with. how would he react to it?
don't settle for what is convenient for him, and leaves you waiting around, rationalizing, because you'd prefer not to be alone. it isn't worth it at the end of the day ...
2006-11-27 11:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he could. To a lot of people sex is something sacred that should only be done with love. The way I was raised sex is very casual. I think that sex can have a lot to do with love, but I think it doesn't need to be about love. I think he just misses you and has sex to make the longing for you go away.
Good luck and whatever happens make sure your happy.
2006-11-27 19:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. Maybe he does and maybe he doesn't. If he is having sex with other women I would be concerned if I were you. Everyone he has sex with you will have sex with every time you have sex with him and one day you can catch a disease and it will be the same one he gets. Aids is always a possibility and so is syphillis or Hepatitus. Is it worth throwing away your health?
2006-11-27 19:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard thing... I really think that if he is going with other women then you might have issues... If you ever plan to marry or anything like that you might have a long painful marriage or you will have a two month marriage and then that is it... I think that you might want to confront him on that so that he knows that this isn't going to fly.... Good luck!
2006-11-27 19:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl friend its real love
me u i will just keep on doing wot i am doing
2006-11-27 19:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by sexygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋