tell the girl she's shallow and that friendship must mean more to her than some make out time with a guy. Tell her you don't want people like her in your life and dump her. That's a no go area for girls, but forgiveness is a choice later on if the both of you have mutual feelings about trying to rebuild a friendship- just keep your guard up, and if she burns you again, say good bye, no more forgiveness, no more chances.
2006-11-27 16:44:11
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answered by throughthebackyards 5
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I don't think you should worry about it if the guys really likes you he wont pay any attention to your friend and if he does like your friend then so what your beautiful and there are a thousand more guys in the world. And who says that you need a guy to be happy there a many girls who don't have guys and live wonderful lives and as for your friend if she hit on a guy she knows you like then i guess she isn't really your friend because friends really don't do that.
2006-11-27 19:09:35
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answered by Gamel A 1
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its up to the guy and ur friend. if they really like eachother then sorry but they were meant to be at least for a period of time. and if not then you are free to date, but you being the better person, ask your friend if its okay and everything, before you start dating him. but if your friend and that guy continue dating, then you'll know theres another guy out there for you. just be friends with that guy if thats the sitch!! lol and God bless u!
2006-11-27 19:08:34
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answered by sPrInG LiLY 6
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Well, I think she is not being a friend by asking him out without talking to you first, and anyways she should have put friends first if she is a true one. I think you should either talk to her about it or just dump her as a friend, because that is really dirty.
2006-11-27 19:13:39
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answered by Anonymous
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a) if she is your "friend" then you might have seen this coming by the way she respects your feelings (or doesn't respect them)
b) obviously she DOESN"T respect your feelings, and that is key in any friendship
c) you need to speak up if you really like this guy. (i'm in the middle of EXACTLY this situation right now...and i'm having probs, but this is how i'm dealing w/ it.)
d) if you flirt with him and then ask him out and he makes fun of you for it (and that's as bad as it could really get) then he isn't really worth anything is he?
e) good luck! i really hope that things work out...i certainly hope they work out for me..:D lol
2006-11-27 19:46:18
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answered by guineagal7 2
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If this guy is not your boyfriend, there is nothing wrong for your friend to ask him out. You should try to ask this guy out too, and if he choose to go out with you, that's meant he like you too.
2006-11-27 20:43:35
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answered by Tan D 7
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Confront her and tell her how you feel. It wasn't nice that she asked out your crush, that was really immature. Just talk to her, and maybe flirt around a bit, there's always other boys. They'll soon be over and its not worth it to lose a friendship over a silly boy. !
Good Luck :o)
â¥emily
2006-11-27 19:39:09
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answered by summer♥sunrise 3
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Seriously, if she was your friend, she would not have done that. If you really think that you guys were best buds, talk to her and ask her if she did it to make you jealous. Try to talk to her if you really consider you guys friends, like to try to save your friendship.
2006-11-27 19:13:35
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answered by Anonymous
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If u don't want to lose a friend might just want to ijnore it and just be happy for her. But if she already new u liked him r u sure she is a great friend
2006-11-27 19:08:44
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answered by lola l 1
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Tell your friend how u feel and if she doesn't back off u shouldn't hang wit her. If she was really ur friend she wouldn't have even gone there in the first place.
2006-11-27 19:13:58
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answered by spb245 1
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