I'm ready to get pregnant again, I have a 14 month ld son. I love babies. My husband seems to go along with me most times, then when we have sex he doesn't go through with it. I don't think he understands how serious I am. I'm getting frustrated and jealous becuase it seems like everyone I know is getting pregnant. How can I get him to warm up to the idea, or atleast be serious about it?
2006-11-27 10:56:10 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
How does he feel? If he doesn't go through with it maybe he's telling you non-verbally that he doesn't want to be a father again. Talk frankly with him about it, find out how he really feels (and dwell a little less on how ready you are and how much you love babies, because I think that's probably most of what he's been hearing from you). Maybe you can bring him around to your way of thinking, and maybe if you're cute and cuddly enough you can even finish off the conversation with him driving it home. Good luck!
2006-11-27 10:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obvously your husband isn't ready and to force the issue can only cause trouble in the long run. It also seems that the only reason you want to have another baby is that everyone else is pregnant. Pregnancies and babies aren't status symbols, just because someone else is pregnant is a lousy reason to want to have a baby.
2006-11-27 19:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! I think you have to sit down with your husband and talk about how you feel about having another baby. He probably is not yet ready to have another baby. As there are a lot of considerations in having another one- he is probably thinking way forward as responsible men would want to ensure the good future of their children.
2006-11-27 19:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just going to take him time. My husband and I went back and forth with the thought for about 6 months and he suddenly decided that he was ready and that was 3 months ago. We haven't conceived yet but we are definately closer.
Just share your thoughts with him constantly and find out what is making him so unsure. it could be finances or something.
2006-11-27 19:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your 14month old. and your husband. You will be able to have another child soon. Talk it over with him first, let him know that it is frustrating when he doesn't go through with it. But take your time If you are older then fine, but if you are in your 20s or early 30s then you have time.
2006-11-27 19:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just tell him your feelings fully... or get on top
:-)
2006-11-27 18:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋