A question for the guys...?

Question

Do you like when a girl plays hard-to-get? Or do you prefer that she is honest?

Answer 1

I hate girls who play too hard to get.

When they artificially play hard to get following things happen :
1. They seem to be pompous and very proud - i don't like such people
2. They tend to irritate and even act in insulting way - a sure way to put a man like me off off and off
3. When they over play this sort of thing even beautiful girls appear like chimpanzees in the zoo

When a girl plays like this with me a bit too much then irrespective of her beauty, sex appeal, character and wealth I avoid even talking to her. I find the whole thing too childish mockery. I would prefer to go to a zoo instead of playing a panzy for such a funny and stupid girl. Yeah !

When the girl is honest, considerate and straight forward and her behavior is also like that then ...

irrespective of her beauty, sex appeal and wealth I like her.
I would go ahead and try to get a date with her.
If it works out fine then
I will like to spend a lot of time with her irrespective of how much short of time I actually may be.

When the girl is also affectionate, she already made it into the fortress around my loving heart. Without using swords and spears of pomp and pride and bullets of insults.

When these swords, spears and bullets can never penetrate the fortress around my heart..
When the cannons of beauty and sex appeal can't move walls of this fortress
When display of money and power can't penetrate the doors of this fortress .....

a simple, straight forward, caring and true girl with the kindness of her heart and affection just makes to the throne inside this fortress ! She does not need sharp arrows of extraordinary beauty or heavy sex appeal to ascend that throne !

I can't put it more clearly than this.

Love is not a business where you need to increase your value by playing hard to get. If a girl keeps bargaining like this like a shrewd negotiator doing a business, then she has already missed the bus before she realizes it.

Well such a girl can always satisfy herself by making a poor sale of her love and be contented with it always assuring herself that she has done very well in her bargaining for love !
So many girls are like that who like to play, play and play hard to get until they acutally lose.

Love is caring and not like a business in which if you negotiate well you get a good price ! More often than not such people who have tendency to "play hard to get" never get their true worth in their love life ! See around it is true.

Answer 2

Being honest is a science of sincerity,
by not hiding honesty there is understanding
& distinguishes what is important & recognition
of observations we find to be true for our own
moment & measure of a personal truth which
is not an absolute truth but an objective truth
by seeing what is real in the emotional moment
of our feelings.....
Honesty does not need qualification,
for how one may feel is real whether
one acknowledges a truth or hides a truth,
the feeling stays real within the heart.....

Answer 3

Honest I do not like hard to get game,s.

Answer 4

Honesty is the only way to go. People like "mongo8620" who look at a woman as a "prize to be won" are what's wrong with society. No wonder the divorce rate is so high!

Answer 5

Honest. Don't need some one to lead me on

Answer 6

Honest. I don't want to be messed around with.

Answer 7

a little hard to get is good. i like to work for it and makes the prize all the better

Answer 8

honesty is the best thing for me i'm 32 and tired of playing games

Answer 9

I prefer a girl who is straight up to the point... she likes me she should tell me... or if i like her, she should acknowledge to the fact...but accepting me or declining me is obviously her choice... lol

Answer 10

HONEST - only guys who like hurting themselves like a teaser...