but the girl has a very healthy relationship with her boyfriend(the father of the baby) and they also live together.
2006-11-27 10:45:39 · 19 answers · asked by lookin for an answer 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
pregnancy is not a mistake....if it is meant to be then it will be. But getting prego on purpose would not be the way to go right now.
it is not easy to get through a school semester while you are in the 3rd trimester of pregnancy. I am doing it right now and thanking the heavens that the semester and pregnancy are almost over. I also work full time supporting my family though. I am also 30 and back in school. I am not sure what your situation is, but if you are not pregnant, then wait. if you are pregnant, take the next semester off. Believe me, it will be worth it. Even if you have to work, no especially if you have to work.
I only have 2 weeks left for school and 4 for the baby! yeah! being a mother is wonderful. I already have 2.
It is great that you have a healthy relationship with your boyfriend, that is important for both you and a child if this is the case. It would be a mistake to get prego on purpose sweetie, just not the right thing to do. It is hard. Very hard. you still have alot of time left to have kids. It will be worth the wait.
2006-11-27 10:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by singitoutloudandclear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never think of a baby as a mistake, it may have been unplanned but its not a mistake, the majority of pregnancy happen without been planned, Baby's chose when they are ready to be born, its all apart of a big plan, they know if your ready and they also pick their parents. I think you should listen to your heart and follow it, collage can wait after the birth you can go back and finish. Things will just be delayed a little so relax and enjoy having a baby, if your at a perfect age and in a loving relationship whats the problem? You will do fine and always remember that you can always go back to collage to finish your courses as well as during your pregnancy. Good luck and best wishes
2006-11-27 10:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are in a good spot in your life it is not a bad thing. However, it is important to be stable in your life. Make sure you have done all the things most young people do and get it out of your system first, because being pregnant will change everything. As far as school goes the important thing is that you are still going and not loosing sight of your long term goal, don't let a baby stop you from finishing school, you'll regret it later.Also, not to sound mean but you are part of a statistic that isn't on your side.So be 20, loving life,loving whats fixing to come and prove that you can do it all and still be in school and become successful!!! Best of luck to every one in that situation.
2006-11-27 11:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by emily l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didnt get pregnant by herself.. so why is it her mistake to get pregnant? takes 2 to tango..
i was 19 when i got pregnant 1 year from graduating high school trying to figure out what i was going to do with my life.. obviously that put things on hold.. but when my baby was 6 months old.. i went to college..
I never thought that my daughter was a mistake.. she made my life better actually.. things happen for a reason.. and thats why i have my daughter.. and i am happy that i have her.. i wouldnt change it for anything in the world.. and being a single parent i have no complaints what so ever.. yeah sometimes its hard but.. its life. and i live it..
this girl is lucky she has the father of the child in her life.. hopefully he doesnt bail on her..
2006-11-27 11:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by ~BaByGiRl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there is something wrong with it. I think it will probably prolong attending college for a short time but other than that as long as she stays on the right track and keeps her future in mind she should be fine. I was 18 when I got pregnant with my daughter and had her when I was 19 and was in college. I have my own business and make very good finances. It is all in the mind and it helps if her boyfriend is sticking by her side.
2006-11-27 10:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by texaslady78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations to the lucky parents!
During my last year in college I got pregnant by my then boyfriend and still now husband. We have been married for ten years now and we are very happy.
But, a reality check, Please do not, Do Not leave college. Even if it's hard to walk at all. After you have a baby it's very difficult to go back and study. While pregnant I walked the whole university and got many "privileges" like front parking (check if your college has any "privileges" for pregnant woman).
As for the guy, be very supportive of her career and do not push her to leave because she won't go back.
As for the kid, he or she are going to be geniuses because of all the reading and talking going around them. My kid is.
2006-11-27 10:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. if u think ur ready, it shouldn't be a mistake to u. and if u got the money to take care of the baby and still go to college. but if u want to get through with college first then have a baby, that would be best
2006-11-27 10:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Adrianna R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's no longer something incorrect with that. i might fairly desire to try this. My fiance is interior the protection stress, in spite of the undeniable fact that, so I cant b/c he wont be domicile to help me with lots. i'm taking a 365 days off, and then going returned. It wont be ordinary to circulate to college and be pregnant, i'm doing it precise now, besides the undeniable fact that it would be the terrific element for you. you may do each and every of the college you could now, because of the fact as quickly as the infant gets right here, it will be a different tale. sturdy luck!!
2016-12-10 17:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think so..I was 18 when I had my son and got my four year degree in four years, worked, took care of my apt and my son...my son's father and I got married as well and are expecting are second baby. Things worked out fine for us. It was a little tough at times and we were busy but we made it work.
2006-11-27 11:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by ktpb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a mistake but hope you are able to finish college. Keep your grades up, provide a safe shelter, provide food, ect. Good luck. Hope you have a good support system for you and your baby.
2006-11-27 10:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋