2006-11-27 10:28:39 · 8 answers · asked by renee r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's lying, it will keep on happening for as long as your silly enough to put up with it. You're worth more, get rid of him.
You keep asking this and getting the same answers, when are you going to listen? No one is going to tell you he is worth staying with.
2006-11-27 10:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a man does something and realizes that he can get away with it he will continue to do what he has been doing because he knows that you will accept his apology and love him still. But now is the time to start loving yourself. You deserve better. No one should be abused and mentally and physically abused. No one. I know that you love this man, but love does not hurt period. It is time to look deep within yourself and find the strength to move on. I know, I was hurt by my daughter's father while we lived together and I moved out. I ended up in a shelter but now I have my sanity. I loved him but I also love myself. I feared for my life. I could not sleep in peace. My child was a nervous wreck. I did it for her and me. Move out. It will be hard but believe me things do get better. Be strong.
2006-11-27 18:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me and listen good. This man is an abuser. Abusive relationships end one of two ways. 1) The abusee walks out on the relationship. 2) The abusee ends up dead. This is the man's pattern, he will abuse you and then he will apologize. You will come back. He will abuse you and then he will apologize. Rinse, repeat. Get out now. No relationship, good or bad, is worth risking your life.
I have seen this pattern before and thankfully, I have been able to help my female friends get out of abusive relationships. I am urging you with all of the strength of word I can commune through a computer: Get out now while you can!
2006-11-27 18:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Takfam 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He cannot stop this behavior without seeking professional help. You cannot stop accepting this behavior until you get some good strong advice and friends who support you. I have been in 2 relationships that were this way. They don't get better, they only get worse. A cycle starts where there is peace, then tension, then abuse, followed by peace again. Please get your self out of this.
2006-11-27 19:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Elle76545 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One should never stay with someone who hits them,and if they have cheated then that is another good reason to get out. Abuse seldom gets better or stops if I were you I would get out before I get killed.
2006-11-27 18:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO man has the right to hit you--EVER. He's acting out of his own guilt. NO DO NOT believe him--get rid that JERK. Move on--you deserve much better than that.
2006-11-27 18:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to pack your bags and run...a leopard can never change its spots"
2006-11-27 18:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember this,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Action's speak louder than WORDS. Run away from him as fast as possible!!!!
2006-11-27 18:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by skybabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋