My gf has a black friend who's all into the fubu gangster crap and uses ebonics heavily. She asked if she could bring a few friends from work over to my party and I said sure. But when my friends and I get drunk, we put on David Allan Coe and the 'N' word flies alot. 'n*gger this, n*gger that, damn n*ggers, etc.' I don't see them going the whole night without saying 'n*gger' so what can I do to prevent her from bringing him without hurting her feelings or his?
2006-11-27 10:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
tell her how you and your friends are when you all are drunk. Tell her that it wouldnt be a good idea because of this..
2006-11-27 10:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by tika ukie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her how ignorant and young you and your friends are and that you are unable to refrain from being racially offensive. Then give her the option of dumping you and finding someone who is mature and knows how to treat people in the manner in which they want to be treated.
Otherwise, be prepared, if he is as heavy into gangster 'crap' and uses ebonics heavily that he may call you a few names as he takes your place apart and possibly beats your behind.
2006-11-27 18:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by searious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your white friends shouldn't be saying nigge* at all. (racist) Your "black girlfriend" and her friend shouldn't say it either. Plus just because someone uses Ebonics, doesn't make them a "fubu gangster crap" type of person. White people and every different race use slang terms too... Society brainwashes people to think all black people that use slang are gangsters, which is untrue. what you need to considerate on is getting your friend to stop saying *****r like its OK
2006-11-27 18:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by king 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand when the African-American people call each other n-word and I here it loosely and quite often, but a white person say it and all hell breaks loose. Trying to teach the young white children not to say that word, but they hear it all the time from the blacks, you tell me how to raise children to respect you.!
2006-11-27 18:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your gf friend is GHETTO I mean she sounds like the definition of ghetto. I don't think you can do much, she will only change if she wants to and probily curse you out if you tell her how you feel. Just try to avoid her as much as you can.
2006-11-27 18:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just tell your gf to tell her friends to stop saying that word in front of other races!Goodluck
2006-11-28 19:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain your concern to your gf NOW - well in advance of the event.
If she still thinks her friend would like to come and won't be offended - it is up to her to explain it to him.
That's what friends do.
2006-11-27 18:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by tigglys 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, don't say stupid sh.it? If you and your friends would grow up, get a life and quit being losers, then you wouldn't have this problem.
2006-11-27 19:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋