i like this guy but i think im fat and we are good friends but i dont know if he likes me also my friends said we should go to the dance next week together wat do i do and im a shy person????
2006-11-27 10:23:39 · 21 answers · asked by emily b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be yourself and hope he notices you. guys shouldnt care bout looks nither should girls. You cant help that your fat. unless you go on a diet but that could be dangerous in some ways. If your a shy person wait until he talks to you but dont act dumbfounded. Have fun at the dance!! And theres plenty of other guys out there that wont care if your fat or if you have a pimple or WHATEVER. it might not be the rightt guy. ♥hayhay♥
2006-11-27 10:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by Twirlgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl there is no pic of u but i doubt u are fat. If your friend thinks u should go to the dance maybe u should go with him it wont hurt nothing. I am a very shy person 2 so I now whats like I have the same problem going on right now with my friend. If the guy really likes you as a friend and he finds out u like him but dose he not like you that way it may be akward for alittle bit but if u guys really were friends and if he is a good guy u shou;ld still be able to be friends.
2006-11-27 18:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by lola l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel gurl...but never EVER tell urself that u arent good enough because of something like "you're fat, or ur ugly, or not good enough" becuz to someone u are the world..if u like him go to the dance...cuz if u dont wouldnt u regret that u didnt??? live with no regrets!!! so go ask him...if ur good friends then ya..he apparently knows u, so it wont b as weird as if u were with a stanger..HAVE A LIL CONFIDENCE!!!!! good luck
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2006-11-27 18:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a real friend, he will know how to respond without hurting your feelings. Besides, you'll never know until you ask. If he doesn't like you, he being your friend won't hurt you. But he will be flattered but honest. Just be prepared that he may not like you the way you like him. Sometime times we as females tend to get close to our friends and feelings change but theirs never change. Yet, sometimes they are scared to ask us cause they aren't sure what we would think of them. So ..... go for it and let me know how it goes
2006-11-27 18:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by jenifer519 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get your self esteem into place, we all need to stop looking at our flaws and start looking at the things that are great about us. You could write him a note asking him if he would like to go to the dance, this way you dont have to tell him face to face just wait for him to answer you later.
2006-11-27 18:26:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I'm sure your not fat!
Second, i say go for it...no excuses =]
Good luck & all the best!
Have fun at the dance!
2006-11-27 18:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See how he is acting when you are around him and if he is showing signs then you can ask him to the dance.You can just ask him indirectly, without saying to him that you like him, just to go to the dance with you.Good luck!
2006-11-27 18:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the dance, have a good time.
Just be yourself.
2006-11-27 18:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by cowrepo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you see him take a deep breath and ask him if he would like to go the dance with me. if he's with his friends pull him aside rember he could go with anybody to that dance your smart and beautiful why shouldn't he go out with you.
2006-11-27 18:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all, don't ever think that you are fat...because then other people around you will start to think that...soo let's get that out of our heads....good? okay...next...as for the boy...if you like him...i think that you should tell him and see what develops...and YOU should ask HIM to the dance...i know i know, scary...but believe me...its all worth it!
2006-11-27 18:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by tomwlglvr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋