she is 12 and she is gonna be 5 months in 3 weeks she told my mom and she freaked out she went to the doctor but my mom is still in her room crying and i want to go see my son at the hospital but my mom is so sad...........wat can i do to make them stop she is 12 years old are they gonna be ok is my mom gonna be ok too......please dont be mean
2006-11-27 10:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by i lubb my baby 1*19*07 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
is my mom mad that my sister told her she was pregnant when she was already 4months along or what else can it be
2006-11-27 10:23:21 · update #1
It will be all ok eventually. Your mom is just in shock and very disappointed right now. Things will calm down. I would be upset too if my daughter got pregnant at 12 , but its still not the end of the world. Whats done is done and now your mother will figure out how to handle the situation. Just let them be for a little while, so your mom can calm down. Go talk to your mom for a moment if you want before you go, just to let her know you are there for her.
2006-11-27 10:24:47 · answer #1 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you are a mom now and your baby comes first. There is nothing you can do about your sister. Go see your baby. Your mom is upset because your sister, who is still a child and shouldn't even be sexually active, is pregnant. That's a lot to handle, for both your mom and your sister. If my daughter came home and told me that at 12, I'd be devastated. Hell, if she told me that anytime before she was like 27 or 28, I'd be devastated.
I don't know what else to tell you. There's not much you can do except give your mom a huge hug and tell her you want to be there for her but you need to check on your son first. Obviously if your son is in the hospital he had some problems. Go tend to your son and best of luck to you and your family...
2006-11-27 10:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by WifeMommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I feel for you in this situation as your sister is 12 and about to be 5 months pregnant.. your mom is going through a wide range of emotions. she would probably be feeling the same way even if your sister was older and had just told her.. its human reaction. Your mom may be sad, and feeling a few other emotions as well but most of all. she may feel like she has failed as a parent . she may feel that she may not have done enough
to protect your young sister from such things as this and other things in life.. as parents even with the young children we do what we can to prepare them for the real world.. i went through the same thing.. i got pregnant at 19, and my mom said things to me i never thought she would say.. it stopped me from talking to her for 2 months.. im sure she had the same feelings as your mom is going through right now..
so where is the father of the baby.. i think you need to get together and have a discussion on whats going to happen.. and the options that they have if they cant take care of the baby.. and im not saying the big A either.. as in my mind the options are adoption or keep it.. but thats my opinion..
2006-11-27 10:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by ~BaByGiRl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom will be fine, it will just take a little while for her to deal with the news. Aren't you a young mother too? Maybe your mom feels disappointed in herself. maybe she feels like she failed b/c you both had or are having children so young in life. Each parent wants more for their children. Maybe your mom is having a hard time excepting all of the new changes in all of your lives. I am sure she will come around, and I am sure things will work out. They always do.
Best of luck to you and your family. Maybe you could find another ride to the hospital to visit your son. Maybe with another family member or a friend of the family. Congrats on your baby. And really best of luck to you and yours. I do hope that you and your sister practice safe sex and use birth control from here on out.
2006-11-27 12:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥just me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, yeah, I think that any parent would be FURIOUS.
Might I calmly suggest that you start looking for a good adoption agency for the baby? That will give everyone something to do as you try to make the best of the situation.
Meanwhile, I'm wondering who the father is... would certainly press charges if the guy is over age 18.
2006-11-27 10:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very heart breaking news to a mother. If my daughter came to me at five months pregnant I would be upset and scared for her. I think that its going to take your mom sometime to get use to it and no matter how mad she is she will always love your sister.
2006-11-27 10:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let your mom and sister know its gonna be OK and you'll get through it together. you should do all you can to comfort your sister - offer to drive to the store and get food when she gets cravings, throw her a private baby shower or something similar so she doesnt have to buy all that stuff a baby needs.
good luck to your family
2006-11-27 10:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cayleen O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to say. See, it from your mother's point of view. Her 12 year old baby girl is having a baby. You need to go see your baby.
2006-11-27 10:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by suz' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she should be ok, she just has to realize that her 12 year old daughter is going to have a kid before she wanted her to
2006-11-27 10:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Hurley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everything is goin to be ok.............thats crazy tat a 12 year old is going to have a baby...........ur mom is going threw some things rite now and i think shell need time to be able to accept things but i think things will be fine
2006-11-27 10:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋