2006-11-27 10:13:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Did you stand up for yourself?
Bullies, did you feel bad later in life?
2006-11-27 10:17:35 · update #1
Yeah, to both options. When I was being bullied I don't think I stood up for myself. And yes, as I look back at the times I have been the bully, I feel painful because of it. I guess I could say I was a real pain-in-the-asss when I was a bully, and I wish I hadn't been. God Bless you.
2006-11-27 10:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in junior high I would get bullied a lot in school for being oriental and they thought I was a female dog and I hated being called. I never been a bully before because I never bullied anyone my life otherwise I would be in the wrong crowd.
2006-11-27 18:16:23 · answer #2 · answered by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied most of my life. I had people throw things at me. I've had people punch me for no reason. I've had people tease me and it's not like one person, but a group of people. My father told me that if I didn't stand up for myself then he was going to hit me. It was horrible and I would get so sick just even thinking about school. I got into a couple of fist fights with some of my bullies. I finally realized that staying calm and talking to someone even if they are yelling at me is the greatest defense mechanism. They, the bullies, don't know what to say or what to do because you just stay so cool, calm, and collected while they're picking on you. It confuses them and after-wards it's just so funny to see there facial expressions.
2006-11-27 18:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by tonja20770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that everyone was either bullied or been the bully at some point in their life
2006-11-27 18:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly, I don't know anyone who hasn't been bullied, hazed, harassed at some point. When a person is a newby they are normally taken advantage of and laughed at and given wrong information on the net so that they will struggle. The court judges are tired of hearing about it so they are beginning to side with the plaintiff and make the bullier pay up.
2006-11-27 18:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been a bully, but once I was forced out of playing in the state championship game because I punched a nerd in the face. I stopped ever since.....
2006-11-27 18:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been the one to step in and protect those that are being bullied and make the bullies stop bullying them. I have also been in relationships that were abusive and was unable to stop them from abusing me. How is it I can protect others yet I cannot bring myself to protect myself unless I am in fear of my life being taken away. I don't believe in hitting others even when they are hitting me. Two wrongs don't make it right... God will get those who have wronged me and reward me for staying right.
2006-11-27 18:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by pink44panther@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been a bully, but I have been bullied all thru school and it was a very bad experience.
2006-11-27 18:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have and even though there is no justification for it I truly understand what goes thorugh a persons mind when they snap.It is worse than chinese torture and some of these kids who get picked on constantly Will eventually snap.I never did but I came close and if I ever see a few certain people there would be retrobution thats how emotionally damaging the torment was.You dont mess with peoples heads and them blame it on them when they no other option but drastic measures because they cant take the abuse anymore.Its like dogpaddling in the water with no land in site.
2006-11-27 18:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, but I did whack a couple in our school for bullying kids younger than themselves.
2006-11-27 18:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Moorglademover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋