there is a guy who likes me and i like him too but the problem is today i saw him playing with another girl and he was so happy and she was happy too because she saw me so sad and even some people say that i am prettier than her
and i deserve him because we look the same and those stuff . so i had nothing to do exept to seat and cry .
what should i do????????
2006-11-27 10:03:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You sound young. Get over it.
2006-11-27 10:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is I think you're jealous. First off, are you two going out? You said that you like him and he likes you, but that doesn't necessarily mean that you two are going out. Second, just because people say you're prettier than her means nothing, what are you in kindergarden or something? Looks aren't everything. You deserve him because you look the same? I'm sorry but I'm not sure I understand correctly. I don't think there's really anything you can do because I don't see the problem. If you two are dating then you should trust him enough to let him hang out with another girl. If you're really worried talk to him about it. I'm sorry if I seem rude but I just don't understand. I hope I could help though.
2006-11-27 18:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to start changing your mind. u shouldn't have to sit and cry.
No man nor boy nor girl should have that type of power over you. Let me tell u he may have been to u the best u have had but it can get better. Cheer up and find something else to do with your time, maybe get a pet. Or do voluntary work. Grade papers or something work in your school office. But don't cry. It's not good u, that's bad stress on your body it can make u lose your beauty.
2006-11-27 18:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody "deserves" somebody because they look the same or one is prettier than the other. you don't match people up by how they look. that's just not how the world works. you may wanna rethink ur situation and decide if that's the only reason you liked him in the first place.
you sound like me when i was 10. if ur anywhere near that age, then you don't even need a boyfriend right now.
2006-11-27 18:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by jgmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it depends on what he was playing. And he might not have known that you'd find anything wrong with him hanging out with girls. The girl also may just be trying to steel him from you. Listen talk to him. Communication is a big part of a relationship. Seriously just talk to him, he might have been legitimately having fun like in his younger days when it didn't matter if you had guy or girl friends. He might be worried about it if he thinks it hurts you.
2006-11-27 18:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by charleston_chic_323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're married to him, there's not much you can do but realize he's single and unattached. It's possible that he's not as into you as you are to him, and you'll just have to accept it and move on because the longer you dwell on it, the longer you'll be wasting time when you could be finding "Mr. Right". He is or he isn't but it's up to him. Talk with him and hear what is said with an open mind rather than allow yourself to interpret it in a way that keeps you fantacizing .. if that's what you've been doing.
2006-11-27 18:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by thellord_thighgod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your obviously young if he is playing with another girl. As in too young to be worried about boyfriends. Why not concentrate on being a really good friend to this boy and then worry about all of this other stuff later.
2006-11-27 18:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and get a life! There are so many more important things to be thinking about and doing. If he's a player, ignore him and move on. If he really likes you he'll be back and you can either accept him or give him the cold shoulder. Are you reactive or proactive? Think about the image you portray when you go into "Poor me" mode...
2006-11-27 18:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has nothing to do with deserving or not. Rain falls not only on parched land but also into the ocean...
2006-11-27 18:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep crying and once that is out of your system then start playing World of Warcraft.
2006-11-27 18:05:38 · answer #10 · answered by b_dubs_3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mami take it easy if dude dont want you then he probably isnt the one believe me by next week you will probably like someone else. This is just one of lifes blue spots okay.
2006-11-27 18:08:37 · answer #11 · answered by baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋