but i found out he was watching porn should i break up with him or 4give him i need help a.s.a.p cuz he dont no that i found out yet im gonna tell him untill he gets home should i break up with him or wat plz help
2006-11-27 09:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Watching porn is NO big deal--unless he watches it obsessively. If you're going to break up with someone for something like that, then it's going to be difficult to maintain a relationship with anyone. Forgive him. Save being angry for the big things.
2006-11-27 09:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I caught my husband watching porn and I got mad cause he lied not cause he watched it.
If you can't make it past this then you should break up, but if you can make it past this then you might have a chance.
If you really like him, talk to him about it, guys like to look at that crap for what reason I don't know, but they do.
I think it's pretty normal that they look at it, but that's just me.
And I didn't come to that realization until I came across this similar situation and asked my question here on Yahoo Answers
Good Luck my friend
2006-11-27 17:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.BusyBody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diana you are kidding me right?? Its natural to watch porno...especially for men. Doenst mean he is doing a thing wrong. Men are very visual,,and would you rather have him out cheating on you?? All men watch it....my man has a thousand pornos....they have to masterbate every single day,,,,its just how they are. Dont start an argument over him watching porn,,,,,doenst mean he loves you any less!!!! Maybe you should suggest that you watch it together....he might jump all over you after that. But pleaseeeee dont make this an issue !!
2006-11-27 17:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting that you asked this cuz me and my two girlfriends just had a conversation about this last nite...... i am not a fan of porn and if i caught my husband watching it or looking at dirty magazines without me or trying to hide it i would freak.... however, my friend bought her boyfriend the best of playboy for christmas and is totally fine with him looking at naked chicks for pleasure. the third girl in the situation sided with me but doesn't have a boyfriend.
basically you have to decide how you feel about his looking at the porn, figure out how it makes you feel, and talk to him about it. if he doesn't respect your feelings then maybe you should break up, but you should give him a chance to at least be told how you feel about it.
2006-11-27 17:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching porn is not really a problem...
now seeing him getting dookie shooted in an alley is a problem
get over it and watch it with him
2006-11-27 17:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Tissa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah brake up that means ur just a second choice in seeing and living realationships
2006-11-27 17:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by lifeisfunny28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can not forgive him for watching porn then break up with him. If you can forgive him then forgive him.
2006-11-27 17:55:35 · answer #7 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up.
2006-11-27 17:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋