i dont know what to do, i dont gety guys dont come up to me. i lost a lot of weight and i got a lot prettier. what should i do and how should i get guys to come up to me. and by the way i hang out with a lot of white people and im black so i dont know if i should stop hanging out with them. is there a way i should show them that im instrested in them or something to say, or something i should do?
2006-11-27 09:50:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
don't worry about your color. maybe your just too intimidatingly pretty that they are a tiny bit freaked out by you. don't wait for them to come up to you, go and talk to them it's not going to hurt. make small chit chat during passing periods about how much the test sucked or something. after they know you a little bit they become really social you just have to initiate it. you will be fine.
2006-11-30 18:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guys are just shy. (it happens more than you think!). Hang out with who you want to, its your choice, dont ditch friends to be popular with guys (trust me, it sucks to be those friends you left...). I know a few guys that wont date anyone in school because of stupid drama that happens there and after they break up. Join some after school clubs or just be a regular somewhere. And talk to them! Dont just randomly start a speech, but comment on something and see what happens. goodluck
2006-11-27 18:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bibsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything to change yourself. Guys will come up to you if you be yourself. Don't worry what guys think as a teen just worry about what you think. If you worry about guys you can get yourself into really bad situations. But if you think your ready for a boyfriend just go up to the guy and talk to him.
2006-11-27 17:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by cutie_62003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about it. It is a big world out there and you will meet many more interesting people later in life. For now just be friendly and open and things will happen.
2006-11-27 19:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by k3s793 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, outward appearance isn't why a guy should like you. be yourself and hang out with friends and eventually the right guy will come along. concentrate more on what's inside than on what's outside. just be patient.
2006-11-27 17:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by frodobaggins115 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well become the guys' friend that way you can get close to them =]
2006-11-27 17:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by BLEHH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Go with your instinct. It's up to you.
2006-11-27 17:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Adam J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋