2006-11-27 09:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by savanahsparlor1969 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him how you feel
2006-11-27 09:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have 2 approaches.
1. tell him how you feel
2. as soon as he gets home, take him straight to the bedroom and undress yourself - or better yet just have a robe on and nothing else- then take it off. Start to 'please him' and let him join in. If he doesn't right away.. tell him you are his sl*t wife, his h*re and you'll do anything he ask. Let him get in the mood. Maybe that is all he needs is a change of sexual pleasures. You don't have to do anything kinky or dangerous, just a little roll playing. Even go as far as pretend there is another guy in there with you that you are pleasing and ask him if he wants to see more of you doing to this guy and actually it is him that you are doing it too. Be open and have an open mind. Hopefully he's just stuck in boredom and this will get him out of it or there could be another reason that you need to talk about. Maybe he is having an affair? But don't jump to conclusions until you try different things and talk about it.
2006-11-27 10:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club....my wifes the same way. would prefer a drink or 2 over any activity.......if you find the answer pass it along. I've tried for 2-3 years every possible type of attention/pampering....still the sex is always an afterthought. never had that issue with women in the past, so i'm hoping its not me!? don't get me wrong...i enjoy cocktail time as well, just choose intimacy first or after a drink as well.
2006-11-27 11:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by faststang71 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you improve a sexless marriage?? HAVE SEX!
He drinks alot - he needs help - and unfortunately until he hits bottom - he won't get it - and you won't have sex either.
2006-11-27 10:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl thank God that he has no desires because he drinks a lot. Men who drink alcoholic beverages are hard to have sex with, it's never over for them, and it wears you out!
2006-11-27 12:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He apparently has an alcohol problem and it is ruining your marriage....
Tell him you love him and want to stay married to him but the
alcohol is ruining your marriage and will eventually result in divorce if he does not stop....
And you must mean it...
2006-11-27 09:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say a whole lot here honey, but addicts, and alcoholics are addicts,so they just aren't available..... They already have a relationship: you just aren't in it!!!!! Alcohol make "performance" just about impossible for men....Is he tired, ooohhhh you bet....
2006-11-27 09:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that really your marriage? if so, try having an affair. I'm serious; it may not help him, but you'll be happier. Now thank you
2006-11-27 10:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him properly?
Does he realise this is affecting you?
I think intimacy is very important in a marriage.
I wish you well.
2006-11-27 09:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how does his drinking effect you other wise.. i got me a toy for that part of my life but if you cant go there then i would try to talk to him about his drinking and let him know how you feel.. you could try al non.. and men on the booze cant perform like they could if they are not on it i know got one sleeping in my br
2006-11-27 09:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but saying you were doing the boss's wife is pretty legit.
2016-03-12 23:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋