Back on 8/10/06. I vented my frustration regarding my 7 year old step daughter, she was not home and foul language was used. My wife has sinced moved out and filed for an anullment, and cut off all communication with me. We met in 6/05 and married in 5/06. We both lived separatly and wanted to not play house for the good of the child. I was her 4th significant relationship in the childs seven years. First it was the babies dad, that ended, Second was a fiance that ended it, third was an old high school ex that cheated on her, and now me. Our relationship was great no fights and always a good time. Once we started living together we started to experience how to live with eachother, and communication started to be a problem, such as me shutting down (where i would get quiet and be by myself) and she hated this. I have sent a letter begging for her forgiveness from both her and my daughter. My life has changed both for the good and bad. Good in that i have learned bad as in i miss them.
2006-11-27 09:45:00 · 2 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait did you not see the flags? Oh no this is the woman's FOURTH relationship with this child in tow. This is a mother hen that will NOT put up with anything that might stand in the way of her daughter.
You have done what you can get into counseling to assist in the pain and hope that she might give you another chance if not move on slowly and look for the flags next time!
2006-11-27 13:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your own question. You shut down. Without communication you have nothing.
2006-11-27 09:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋