I wonder if it is real or just feels bad or doing something on the side...more loving then usual. Hugs kisses thanks yous, rubbing, just weird. what do you think?
2006-11-27 09:17:50 · 14 answers · asked by bobsdidi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just ask him.
2006-11-27 09:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you won the lottery it would make perfect sense for him to act that way, but since you didn't, I would say the chances of him having an affair are very high, considering he has changed his attitude toward you.
I may be wrong, but my EX acted the same way, until I discovered he was cheating on me.
Start snooping around, investigate where he goes, this might not be the right way to do things, but it's the only way to find out for sure whats going on. Good luck.
2006-11-27 17:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do that also get more romantic in Waves. Could be as simple as seeing a holiday movie that reminds him how lucky he is to have you and he is showing it a bit more. Since it's the season for these holiday movies, it's a good bet. Don't worry enjoy the added attention.
What do I think.... It might be a nice time to plan a special get-away for the weekend. So he can lavish you with even more attention. :)
2006-11-27 17:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say but you would hate to accuse him and he is just being loving. I say what ever is done in the dark comes to light? You trust him? Well enjoy the pampering while its there it might not last forver and whatever he is doing you will find out. Dont try to figure it out though thats when problems are caused when u sneak, peek, or accuse. Enjoy life with your husband, give him the benfit of the doubt and wait time will tell
2006-11-27 17:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Im da Example 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If hes anything like me, there are just times when i feel like more lovin. Not just sex, but all of that stuff! He also may have been thru something that made him really realize how much he cares for you. Did he recently have some kind of traumatic event occur?
2006-11-27 17:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will never get to the bottom of that one, mine did that too, so I asked a mans point of view and It could be something you did!! In a good way, maybe he is happy with the way things are going and appreciates you!!!
2006-11-27 17:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by irene 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it takes time for love to grow... And maybe he is realizing now that you two are in this together.
2006-11-27 17:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can actually be a sign of cheating. Hopefully not but I would look into it if this behavior is unusual for him.
2006-11-27 17:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why the sudden change. Maybe he talked with some one that suggested he appreciate you more.
2006-11-27 17:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sally V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it unless you have a reason to doubt it maybe he just feels like he wants to show you he loves you....
2006-11-27 17:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by crazyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be REAL worried. If that's not his norm, he's up to something! Where's there's smoke. . .
2006-11-27 17:28:28 · answer #11 · answered by dennis k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋