Plz Help Me!!!!!!?

Question

ok, heres the situation...

ive been going out with this guyfor like a year and a half. (im 14) and two months ago, we had sex. (my mother does not even know that we socialize, she dosent really even know who he is) i skipped a period the next month, and i took a pregnancy test that said that i was preg. (but i know that they are only deffinate if it says no) so i assumed that i wasnt, because i thought that it was wrong. so i started to get nausous (sry, cant spell) and i thought that it was morning sickness, so i took another test, and it was positive. but then i got my period. so i know that im not pregnant now, but how should i look at this situation?

like i was preg. and i misscarried or i just wasnt preg. and that test were wrong????

i know that im on my peroid, and itz not just a little bleeding

Answer 1

Who told you that pregnancy tests are only definate if they say no? That's not something you should believe. You're only 14, your period is probably still irregular, and it will probably continue that way for a few more years. Or it could be stress delaying your periods. Either way, if you're old enough to have sex, you should be old enough to protect yourself from pregnancy and std's. Go get some condoms from a local Planned Parenthood or grocery store (or older sibling or cousin!), or get on some birthcontrol. (I believe you can get on birth control through your dr. without your parent's knoweledge.) Whatever you decided, please be safe about it. Take care.

Answer 2

First I think you should know thet test will never say yes unless it is yes!!! It can say no when it really is yes though! So what I think is the yes you were or still are pregnant. Even if you didn't have a miscarrage it is soo important for you to go to the doctor! Your mom might be very upset but she can also be you best sorce of help. If you can't go to her find a way to get to a planned parenthood center and find help. After a miscarrage there can be complications that you don't know about and if you want to have kids later, when you are older or married then I sugest seeing doctor soon!!!! It can be very complicated and I don't know how much you know about your body and having babies but after the baby there's more stuff that is suposed to come out and usually you need a doctor to help with that part so you don't get an infection with what is left over. But I know for a fact the test won't be wrong with a positive answer! I truely think you should talk with your mom, if she knows that you need her, that will become more important the the sex part. Trust me.. I am an adult now but I know what it's like...I had a baby when I was a teenager and also a misscarrage latter. Good luck, my heart goes out to you.

Answer 3

Those tests are not entirely accurate, as you discovered. But just to make sure, you should be examined by a gynocologist. I know your mother doesn't know, but I think she should. She has a right to know things like that about her daughter -- not only that you were fooling around on the sly, but that you took pregnancy tests that were false positive. There is still a slight chance that you could be pregnant. So in order to make things right you should tell your mom. She may be angry and upset, but I still feel she has a right to know. If you are pregnant, you won't be able to keep that a secret for long. And at 14 you're much too young to be having sex or going out with guys anyway. Be prepared to take the consequences of your actions. We learn by our mistakes, and hopefully we don't make the same ones again. Good luck!

Answer 4

Well you can have a period while being pregnant. Secondly if you feel like you are old enough to be having sex then you should be mature enough to use birth control. Third if you are indeed pregnant you need to get medical treatment immediately especially because of your age and the well being of the baby. Tell your mother or a school nurse of your situation. I had a friend in high school who hid it from her parents and friends, when she did go into labor she went two months early, because she did not receive any prenatal care the baby had and still has many physical and mental problems. It is scary I am sure but you have to tell an adult, for your sake and the babies! t.c. Randi

Answer 5

Yes, definitely go to Planned Parenthood. They can tell you what is going on, which would be good for you to know. You might still be pregnant, or, if you miscarried, you need to make sure that everything came out of your womb.

Either way, at the same time you can get birth control so you won't have a situation like this again!

Answer 6

It definantly sounds like you misscarried-if you had 2 positive pregnancy tests then are were 99% accurate.You should go and be checked by an OB GyN to make sure that you will be ok.Sometimes with a misscarriage a D and C needs to be done.

Answer 7

You could have had both happen- it would be a good idea to wait until marriage to have sex- you don't want to raise a baby alone- or get married now- adoption is great- and such a blessing to those that cannot have a baby- usually when a test says positive it is positive- you can go to health dept- or crisis pregnancy center= for testing that is usually free-D

Answer 8

tell him ya so!! If he change into grew to change into off through it, he might want to have purely omitted you and not in any respect teased you about it. tell him, he'd be an fool no longer to carry close you've been crushing on him, and your purely sorry it took you writing a note to figure it out. yet you gotta say it with a grin and a touch perfect mind-set. do not act strange or diffrent....believe me, he teased you about it, that is effective. Now bypass ask him what he's gonna do about it, or, I choose the formidable technique, and purely supply him a huge ole kiss and get it over with...sturdy success

Answer 9

Hugs to you in this situation. I would go to Planned Parenthood for a test and then to get on birth control. Please make sure that your boyfriend wears a condom. I know that its hard for most young guys to wear one because they think its not cool, but if he really cares about you he will wear one for you. You need to take care of yourself first.

You could have miscarried or you could have an ectopic pregnancy that could lead to serious health consequences. At your age, please don't mess around with your later-in-life fertility by not taking care of yourself now. Please go see a doctor. Does your mother have a gynecologist? Can you ask to see her doctor under your parents' insurance? You could tell your mom that your friends at school have started getting their first PAP smears and you're concerned too as an alibi for why you want to go.

Take care of yourself.

Answer 10

You need to get to a clinic. If you had 2 tests come out pregnant you at least were pregnant. You still could be, but you need to get to a Dr. If you did miscarry you could get a serious infection if you don't get checked out.