I hear my friends say there man doesnt hardly ever want sex like they use too.And we are the same age and want it.And no we all still look good at our age.Whats up?
2006-11-27 08:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I'm in my 40's and I can only have sex about 4x a night now, so yeah, I'm slowing down.
2006-11-27 08:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently learned that beginning in their mid-40s, men begin to lose muscle mass, which affects the amount of testosterone they produce. And testosterone influences sexual desire, arousal and pleasure. So if a man nearing 50 isn't physically active as he may once have been, he may begin to want sex less and be less able to enjoy it when he does experience it, which makes him want it less, which... It becomes a vicious cycle.
I still want it as much as ever, and I'll be 51 in a couple of months. But since about 45 I've had a gym membership (I was very physically active in my teens and twenties, stopped regular exercise in my thirties, and resumed in my mid-forties). I originally started working out to reduce my risk of heart attack and to be able to enjoy social and family activities (nature walks with my kids, etc.) more, but I have noticed that I enjoy sex a lot more when I'm regularly hitting the weights than when I have some time off. And it isn't about strength, endurance or physical condition -- I mean it just feels better even if I'm, er, lying back and enjoying it. So this may well be an indication of the whole muscle-mass/testosterone connection.
Which means if you want to KEEP wanting it after 50, making it to the gym a couple times a week might be good insurance. It's one more reason to drag yourself out of bed... one that will pay dividends when you go back there.
2006-11-27 17:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Scott F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol i am almost 50 and i have no problem at all i had this girl in bed a while back we had sex for about 12 hour stright it was great i had no problem at all and we both really enjoy it she was 37 yo.
2006-11-27 17:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, we still WANT it but father time has some very cruel jokes to play on us men over 50.
2006-11-27 16:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 55 want it twice a day.Wife is 41 dont want it ever.She left citing that as her reason.
2006-11-27 16:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the state of health
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2006-11-27 16:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋